NM...I was thinking along the same lines as you on my dream but a friend of mine had a different take on it and thought I would post it cause I likey it!!!
"6 am represents the dawn of a new day,
Men are there to move out the old and you're to watch to make sure those things that you want, stay. H wants you to watch to prove that what you want is important to him.
The gift of the car represents his remorse for the A.
Picking you up and carrying you to go look at it represents his fear that if he doesn't hold on to you may just walk away.
The car being a green mustang represents the jealousy that you have felt, and then you let it go and it changes.
The other car being blue represents calmness.
The car turning into an ever better car represents that your new life with your H will be better than you ever expected. After all you have a new car in which to make that journey together. Less chance of breakdowns along the way."
My friend does not have a dream analyzing book but this is how she came up with her interpretation....
"You had distinct details you remembered in that dream such as the time, colors, being carried, gift that I think are significant.
Another thing I was thinking about being carried was that I'm always afraid that when I'm picked up that person will drop me or fall with me. It's a trust thing. Maybe your H was saying, trust me, I won't let you down again???"
My friend put a disclaimer on her version to take it FWIW. I don't believe in crystal balls but I like the positive spin on it!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
I'm like you, I like it when someone is able to put a positive spin on things involving my R, but I'm becoming a bit cynical about everything involving him these days. I've become "expect the worst, anything else will be a pleasant surprise."
WOOOOOW- I like the other interpretation way better! I mean it sounds like it came from a dream dictionary!
Now, I just watched a documentary about "why we dream" (frontline) and there were 2 types of dreams:
1)working out problems in our lives, from mundane to serious
2)anticipating problems in the future so that we may be prepared to tackle them
Those scientists are so LOGICAL- yet they said dreams are very intuitive in the sense that we are tuning into subtle clues, and actions that come up all wacky in our dreams.
Of course, as Freud said, sometimes "a cigar is just a cigar!"
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Cars also represent the journey - and the means to get there.
My interpretation is that the green car your husband gave you does represent the jealousy and healing from jealousy (green also represents healing) and the blue one that you conjured (that's a better car) my represent that you have higher expectations for the future - that you are aiming to fulfil.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
I think it all sounds logical, but my idea of a good night's sleep involves my H NOT being in it.
LOL!
Hi Walking...thanks for stopping by and putting another interesting version to the dream! I do think it is true that I am healing from the jealousy of the OW and I do expect the future, with our without my H will be better!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
