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Well, time for a new thread

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www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2368775#Post2368775
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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2377072&page=1
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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2383250&page=1
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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2395511&page=1
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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2404858&page=1
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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2405224#Post2405224
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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2413346&page=1

Stuck in a Moment-U2

I'm not afraid
Of anything in this world
There's nothing you can throw at me
That I haven't already heard

I'm just tryin' to find
A decent melody
A song that I can sing
In my own company

I never thought you were a fool
But darling, look at you
You gotta stand up straight, carry your own weight
'Cause tears are going nowhere, baby

You've got to get yourself together
You've got stuck in a moment
And now you can't get out of it

Don't say that later will be better
Now you're stuck in a moment
And you can't get out of it

I will not forsake
The colors that you bring
The nights you filled with fireworks
They, they left you with nothing

I am still enchanted
By the light you brought to me
I listen through your ears
Through your eyes I can see

You are such a fool
To worry like you do
I know it's tough and you can never get enough
Of what you don't really need now, my, oh my

You've got to get yourself together
You've got stuck in a moment
And you can't get out of it

Oh love, look at you now
You've got yourself stuck in a moment
And you can't get out of it

I was unconscious, half asleep
The water is warm 'til you discover how deep
I wasn't jumping, for me it was a fall
It's a long way down to nothing at all

You've got to get yourself together
You've got stuck in a moment
And you can't get out of it

Don't say that later will be better
Now you're stuck in a moment
And you can't get out of it

And if the night runs over
And if the day won't last
And if your way should falter
Along on this stony pass

And if, and if the night runs over
And if the day won't last
And if your way should falter
Along this stony pass

It's just a moment
This time will pass
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Tomorrow morning at 11 is my Judicial Case Conference. I'm terrified. Just responded to my lawyer's itinerary with a few comments and corrections. Have had a half a bottle of wine with tenant and have asked everyone I know to pray. Picked out an outfit, professional yet attractive.

If you could pray tomorrow I would appreciate it. It starts at 11 am (pacific time) and goes approx 1.5 hours but may take longer if H's lawyer wants to negotiate further.


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Cause I am a champion and
you’re gonna hear me ROAR
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thinking of you!!


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H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
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WR,
I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Please stay positive!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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WR,

Sending you positive vibes, sweetie! (((WR)))

Here's some last minute stuff:

1) Let your lawyer do most of the talking
2) Sit/Stand up straight
3) Make eye contact with judge
4) Keep your voice calm and even
5) Be aware of any fidgeting you do...if it happens, just hold your hands together on a table or in your lap

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WR,

You will be brilliant! AND, it will be over before you know it.

Be kind to yourself after the conference, go have a coffee and decompress.

Thinking of you!

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Thank you everyone for your prayers and well wishes. I'm drinking my coffee and about to shower. H's visa called here this morning to ask where he was.....just to rub salt in the wound. Oh. Went to deposit the mortgage cheque and there was money in the acct......h gave me the child support last week.

A distant family member, on of my cousin's aunts on their dad's side, is also going through a D with her mlc h (same name as my H). Another piece of nasty. She had her Jcc Wednesday and the judge gave each of them an opportunity to say their peace. Anything you think I should or should not say to H?

I wrote out a statement but it's 7 pages long. I think I'm rambling.


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Thoughts and prayers are with you WR.


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ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks
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Show me the moneyyyyy!!!!!!

Lots of love to you,

Heather


"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
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Heather you made me laugh.....thank you:)

My lawyer sent me an itinerary of points she'd like to discuss. She's going high, on the money for obvious reasons, but H is goons sh-t himself when she says it


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Prayers headed your way.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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