OH my god, you guys, what a day! For the first time since BD I'm actually sort of excited about something!
I went and saw this apartment today after work and I'm floored. The situation is that it's a house with an in-law type apartment in the basement. It has its own bedroom, bathroom and private entrance, with a small living room area. It's nothing huge, but enough for a Little trying to get her feet under her and two cats.
The house itself is gorgeous and someone else (who is a quiet professional woman, older than me) is renting the upstairs portion; we'll have to share a kitchen and a laundry room. I went to dinner with her tonight to get to know her and I think we'll suit really well.
So, that said, I think I'm going to take the apartment and move out of where I am.
Sort of apprehensive about the details shaking out, as well as her time line (she wants to get us settled in before January!) but I have a good feeling it will work out for the best.
The bedroom is a tiny bit small, and I hope my Queen sized bed will fit, but other than that I feel like it will be plenty of space for me.
Deep breaths, this is kind of scary, but in a good way!
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
That's great news, Little! Moving into my own place made a total difference - especially as I see and interact with people in the hallways. Sounds like a really good fit for you.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
I'm staying with family now since I moved out of my apartment with BF in October, so this will be a place I can get totally buck naked and dance if I wanna.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Dealing with some sadness today. I'm bored, I think that's why. Went out to just get out, but I wandered aimlessly, thinking. Bad idea, I know. My good friend is on a trip this weekend so she's not available to keep me busy.
If wishes were fishes, man, I'd turn back time....or make a miracle happen. Blah.
Tomrrow is a new day. I do not know the future.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
"If wishes were fishes, man, I'd turn back time....or make a miracle happen. Blah." Yep.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
I don't want the crappy R, but I want a BF that was not thinking about leaving. I guess I'd have to know, back in time, what I know now and be willing to fix it, and save it. Hahahah.
Okay, so in the end that's not possible, but you never know if a miracle is right around the corner.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
