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Replied back with words similar that Ready2Change suggested. No response yet. Thanks for all the help guys.

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WW has been back at home town the last several days.... left kids with me (they are on break) and I had to take time off from work to be with them (not complaining, we had a blast and I LOVE being with them smile ) . She facetime'd from a bar/restaurant and was super shady (holding phone up super close so i could not see background) and next day from some hotel or some odd house doing the same thing. It's very obvious this was not a 'girls weekend'.

here is my question - it is very obvious she is having an affair. I feel like even though my plan so far has been to detach, 180, gal (all going well) and ride this out, I simply don't want to let her have cake and eat it too. She is sending me these links for shotgun divorce sites, but not much else movement.

I am thinking of asking her to move out of the house when she gets home this weekend. I am sort of disgusted at this point and starting to think it is not healthy for me/kids to have her here in our forever home.

Thoughts? Thanks in advance!

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Do no ask her to move out.

There are better ways to handle this.


Have you read through my quotes thread? Start on #3. then read the rest.

Come up with a good plan/script. Get input from everyone here before taking action.


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Originally Posted by Ready2Change

Do no ask her to move out.

There are better ways to handle this.


Have you read through my quotes thread? Start on #3. then read the rest.

Come up with a good plan/script. Get input from everyone here before taking action.



I do not think I am sure what quotes thread you are referring to, but I would love to read it at this point. Where do I find it? Thanks and sorry.

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Hey Ready2Change - where is this quotes thread? I can't seem to find it searching. Thanks.

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Ahh - I think I found the quotes thread! Is this #3 and what you recommended I read? I am reading them all by the way - thanks

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2039619&page=all

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"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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great stuff, much appreciated.

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I just want to say thank you for opening my eyes up to parts of this site I knew nothing about. You are a wealth of knowledge.


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