SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE WITH DIVORCE BUSTING® TELEPHONE COACHING
Since 2001, we have been offering Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching based on the effective marriage-saving principles developed by Michele Weiner-Davis. We specialize in working with the one spouse who wants to save the marriage when the other spouse wants a divorce.
Get the marriage help you need right now!
If you’ve been feeling discouraged, panicky, frustrated, or depressed and wondering, “Is my marriage is over?” there’s good news. Even if your spouse seems firm about leaving, you don’t need to get a divorce. We can help.
Will Divorce Busting® Coaching Work for Me?
- Divorce papers have been filed
- There has been a long-term separation
- Your spouse says that he or she is definitely done with the marriage
- Your spouse is having a mid-life crisis and blames you for everything
- Your spouse is in the middle of a hot and heavy affair
- Your spouse told you that he or she never loved you in the first place
- You haven’t had sex for a very long time
- Sexual attraction has fizzled out
- Your spouse isn’t talking to you
- You don’t see each other very often
- You have been having an affair and your spouse discovered it and left
- Step-family problems seem insurmountable
- You and your spouse can’t discuss things calmly
- Your spouse frequently goes out with friends
- Money problems are dividing the two of you
- You just became empty nesters and your spouse thinks you don’t have anything in common
- Your spouse told you that you have just grown apart
- You or your spouse is deployed and things are falling apart
- Different parenting styles have driven you apart
- You or your spouse has a serious addiction
- You are coping with a mental or physical health issue
- And more….
What Happens During a Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching Session?
Because things may feel overwhelming, your coach will help you decide which aspects of your situation to focus on first.
Your coach will brainstorm specific strategies for helping you get the kinds of responses you’re hoping for from your spouse.
Divorce Busting® coaches give “homework assignments” to build on the ideas you discussed over the phone.
Additionally, your coach will be a tremendous emotional support to you through this process because fighting for your marriage can feel lonely when you’re doing it alone.
We tried counseling. We tried church. We tried talking. We tried not talking. We tried any and every approach we could think of. None worked.
Sometime in the 18 months that followed, she began having an affair with her boss. I was an emotional wreck, and all she ever seemed to say was, “I don’t love you, and I never did. I want you out of my life.”
Eventually, I turned to your Divorce Busting Method. It should have been the first thing I did. It would have saved me months of stress and heartache.
I spoke to a coach two months ago, and I put what I learned into use. Today, my wife told me I was “irreplaceable” and that she loves me.
We talk. We laugh. We enjoy each other. She left her old job and doesn’t talk to her old boss anymore. It took two months of following my coach’s advice to bring my marriage back to life.
I owe you so much.
Hank F, Ft. Lauderdale, FL
Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching Works!
- improvements in their marriages
- feeling emotionally supported by their coaches
- improved self-esteem and heightened sense of well-being
- increased relationship skills
- improved co-parenting relationships
- more hopefulness about the future
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303-444-7004
We have done counseling before and it didn’t work. Why would Divorce Busting® coaching work?
This is simple. The Divorce Busting® coaching program isn’t anything like traditional counseling. If you’ve ever had counseling, chances are, your counselor spent lots of time helping you understand the past and why you do what you do. The theory is, if you’re having a problem, you can’t change until you understand the underlying psychological issues of the past and this process usually requires many sessions.
We disagree. Although you might need to talk about the past to explain the problem, you will quickly be guided to what you need to do today to make things better. Our focus is on the future. Plus, we know that change can happen quickly.
Additionally, our coaches are very directive. You won’t have to guess about what you need to do next; your coach will give you concrete results-oriented suggestions and hold you accountable for following through!
How will coaching be helpful if my spouse won’t participate?
Here’s a short explanation of why Divorce Busting® telephone coaching works.
Imagine for a moment that you and a loved one are having a great evening together. Are there certain things you could do or say that would turn things sour immediately? Of course, there are! Everyone knows that they can behave in ways that trigger the people around them and push their buttons!
If you know how to push someone’s buttons in a negative way, you can learn how to push them in a positive way. Your coach will teach you exactly how to push your spouse’s positive buttons so you have more positive interactions and feelings.
I don’t know if this is worth my effort. Maybe I should just throw in the towel.
You may be feeling discouraged, but the truth is, you are reading this page. And if you are, you know in your heart that you have not given up on your marriage. You may be tired, but you are probably the kind of person who wants to make sure you leave no stone unturned.
Just read what Bob has to say about his journey from hopelessness to hopefulness.
I just wanted to say I can’t thank you enough for your work.
It was about 4am, and I couldn’t sleep, as usual. At 9 am, I had an appointment with my attorney to sign and finalize the divorce filing. Scrolling around online I came across your website and I called my lawyer 10 minutes before the appointment and told him “I’M NOT GETTING DIVORCED!” …read more >
…I read some of your advice and I felt like you had been following my wife and I around for years. 6 weeks ago she said “I love you but I’m not in love with you” packed bags and moved out. She returned a few days later with family and trucks and moved out 100%. She cut off all contact with me and the occasional contact we had was her telling me “this isn’t fixable” and she wanted a divorce. I lost all hope totally. I decided to follow your advice and speak to a Divorce Busting coach. I realized that everything that I was doing was pushing her away more and more. I decided that no matter how bad things were I wasn’t giving up on my marriage.
Literally within days I noticed a difference. I would be online and out of the blue she would message me.
Finally, on Sunday she asked if I would come watch her softball practice which is a team that I sponsor. After the practice, she was hungry and we got food. She was supposed to go back to where she was staying that night but asked if she could come by the house and see the dogs.
That lead to us spending the night together in our bed for the first time in 6 weeks. She went from insisting on a divorce to almost begging me not to LEAVE HER. She can’t stop thanking me for not giving up on her!
There is not a doubt in my mind if I didn’t come across your coaching program that I would still be a wreck on my couch, divorced, and wondering “What the hell happened?”
Thank you so much for what you do.
Bob, New York, NY
You are very courageous to fight for your marriage when lots of people have been telling you to move on. We want to help you win this fight.
You can start Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching right away. You will feel so relieved that you did.