I've decided that I'm no longer going to post here need to move on for my own reasons. I found divorce busting after my wife and I separated and it wasn't very fun this put allot of focus on developing myself and growing. After getting back together much of the focus was on relationships and our troubled sex life. We continue to work through our issues and have the tools and desire to continue to do so.
It's been a very difficult year in many ways as we have lost 3 pregnancies, one that was very late. I didn't share that here because I didn't feel it was the place and I didn't want any sympathy I just wanted to deal with it.
After reuniting, learning to deal with our sex issues, going through the multiple loss of our babies my, wife and I are stronger and better in many ways than ever.
Sex has it's place but I'm no longer "starving" or frustrated it's not perfect but nothing is.
So thanks everyone for joining and being a part of this particular episode of my life but I'm gone. I hope you wont be offended if I don't return I'm graduating myself.
Martelo, I'll miss you too. You put some things into words that really helped clarify things for me. I know you aren't looking for pity, but I am so sorry about the losses you and your wife have suffered. But I'm happy you have been able to salvage each other through it all. Vaya con Dios.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
Congratulations on the divorce busted. I'm so happy for you and for your wife. I'm very very sorry to hear about the pregnancy losses. Joey and I lost our first son, Nathaniel, at 20 weeks gestation. It was a horrible time of grief for both of us, but like you said, we were stronger as a result. We later lost a pregnancy at 12 weeks and that affected us of course as well. We now have two healthy children, so I hope you are getting what you need from your doctors. Wishing you the very best for a happy family.
The very best to you and the missus. I hope that you are successful in having/completing your family. I have dealt with pregnancy loss and it is hard. You have been a terrific poster - made me think, step back, meditate. All of that is good for me since I can have insta-emotions at times. I will miss you. Take care of yourselves and each other.
Good luck and best wishes to you and the wife on whatever you do. It's good to hear the success stories and it sounds like you're well on your way in yours I know you don't want the sympathy....but I'm sorry about your losses.
Good luck from...let's see, what was it you called me? Oh yea, here it is...rooten tooten nugent lovin bowshooten clueless guy - Good luck my friend!
I just wanted to say I'm so very glad you and your W were strong enough to get through everything together.
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Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
I know you don't want the sympathy....but I'm sorry about your losses.
- Good luck my friend!