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Hey Jeff!

I've been a bit slow on the boards this week. But I'm here as you get ready, and here afterwards too. I think you're doing the right thing by trying something different and am thinking of you.

(((hugs)))

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You deserve to be happy! Your friends here will be able to help you no matter what you decide...and you'll get support and great advice if you need it.

Take back the control!

BA


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Affair continues
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Originally Posted By: ba065
You deserve to be happy! Your friends here will be able to help you no matter what you decide...and you'll get support and great advice if you need it.

Take back the control!

BA

This sounds like what the friends of a WAS would say.
But hey, who doesn't deserve to be happy? we all do!

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Originally Posted By: ba065
You deserve to be happy! Your friends here will be able to help you no matter what you decide...and you'll get support and great advice if you need it.

Take back the control!

BA

This sounds like what the friends of a WAS would say.
But hey, who doesn't deserve to be happy? we all do!


(((((palgal)))))
I'd thought of that, too, pal! And if my "plan" was to just give up, then I would be following the "easy way out" LBS script. But I'm hoping to get to the happiness through fixing this mess, and I think this is a necessary step to get there. If it doesn't work, I'm prepared for that, too, so I think it is time!

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Jeff:

Act as If.....don't forget!

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((((((((BA))))))))

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wandering in....

any snacks here?

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Hmmmm, I bet we could rustle some up, let me have a look....


Found some chips and salsa! Would that count?

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Happy Valentine's Day to all my DB friends! Maybe it won't be like we hoped and dreamed, but it can still be a great day!

So, let's have chocolate, and Baileys, and cheese and crackers and wine, but no whine!, and anything else you want to bring by, and enjoy each other's company as we go through our journeys!

((((((((((Everybody))))))))

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Happy V Day to you too!

I will bring a huge chocolate cake, with chocolate frosting.
I guess I missed the chips and salsa- I was away from the board for a couple of days. I always know I can come here for good food and fun. \:\)


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married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

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h moved back 4/08

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