SG stated i needed a new topic this is all i could think of for now.
I have work and bank issues. That darn checking account has caused havoc, i knew it was not a good idea. I have to fix this mess which by the way is not my fault. H would help me resolve it or just do it himself. Since i will not tell him about it, its my mess i must fix it. I feel sick to my stomach that he won't be there anymore to at least just help me and give me ideas about how to fix it. But i have to find it in myself to do this.
I need to get back to work, i will be back later
bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
Well to make a long non canadian story short LOL. I have for years had a saving account with the credit union the hospital uses. I also have a christmas fund. When in 2004 h and i bought our disney vacation club it was decided that since he paid for the car lease with his savings account (same credit union) it would be easier for me to pay for the Disney time share. No problem has not been a problem for 4 years until i went there to open my checking account. It seems everything got all messed up, they both the credit union and dvc both say its has been set up from your checking account for years.I have had the darn checking account for under 30 days, How is this possible Its not our fault its their fault. Both pointing at each other. Now i never informed the dvc that i had a checking account so how they took the money out of there to me, non banking person is just mindblowing. They made the mistake of where the money was supposed to come from. When i opened the account i changed nothing, i even said to the woman this will not effect my loan payment to dvc right. No mrs bear it will not. Well saturday a statement comes to the house saying i am overdrawn on my checking account by 75 dollars and they hit me with a 32 bounced check fee. So i spent almost 2 hours of work off time (i had to take) and go and try to settle this. Know what i get from the credit union. Humm, we dont know how this happened we will start an investigation. So for the time being i had to have them transfer money to my checking to cover the payment for the dvc, and there will be a payment taken out on the 1st. But this will not go on till the first for if i do not get an answer by 2pm tomorrow I will close the checking account. Oh and they did me a favor and credited my account the 32 dollars the charged me for a bounced check fee. WOW. See i knew this checking account was a mistake.
Get that tutorial ready for me SG, i need some pointers on how to work this one out.
I need to go eat ladies, I will be back later on. Oh and h is not home was "teaching" a cpr class, Yea, giving someone mouth to mouth. At 5pm for only 5 people. According to guidelines he should be done in an hour but NOT.
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Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
Thanks for the sites, i will look thru them later on today. Hopefully they will fix their error today. The second one looks interesting though.
And i know you were not kidding! lol
bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
Sorry i never answered the work part of you question last night. I am drowning at work. It just keeps piling up on me. and i cannot get ahead. My boss keeps saying we will figure out someway to help you but its not coming, he never has time to sit and figure it out with me. Problem is i don't know how to make my work load easier. All the things that have been added on to me have, will take hours to train someone else to do, and if they make a mistake it will come back to me instantly. So for right now i don't know what a solution to this is. I don't have the hours to spare to train someone. Plus they all work shift work, not 5 days a week like me, so if i train someone they may only work lets say sat, sun, tues. What about the rest of the time. I just for right now cannot figure out how to ease the stress load at work. Work takes my mind off h for a while, but it is getting very stressful there too.
Well i need to get moving and get to work so i can try to catch up or make a dent in one thing. The new boss is putting a lot of pressure on me also, he is the kind of stop what your doing and do this for me, get this information, asap. He dumped something on me yesterday, and i counter back with well, the head of this dept really should have that information and her name is xyz. His reply is well let me know what she says when you contact her to get this information.
Also need to deal with MIL issue today. I need to leave her a message she seems to be mad at me because i was in florida last month and did not contact her, H told here mom and i were there, go a message a few weeks ago of when did you get back from florida, i will call you later and that was 4 weeks ago. We always talked at least every other week. My message to her will be i am sorry you feel that angry that i did not call you, but this trip came up last minute and i took my mom. I am sorry you feel the way you do. we will see what happens with this
bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
Sorry i never answered the work part of you question last night. I am drowning at work. It just keeps piling up on me. and i cannot get ahead. My boss keeps saying we will figure out someway to help you but its not coming, he never has time to sit and figure it out with me. Problem is i don't know how to make my work load easier. All the things that have been added on to me have, will take hours to train someone else to do, and if they make a mistake it will come back to me instantly. So for right now i don't know what a solution to this is. I don't have the hours to spare to train someone. Plus they all work shift work, not 5 days a week like me, so if i train someone they may only work lets say sat, sun, tues. What about the rest of the time. I just for right now cannot figure out how to ease the stress load at work. Work takes my mind off h for a while, but it is getting very stressful there too.
Well i need to get moving and get to work so i can try to catch up or make a dent in one thing. The new boss is putting a lot of pressure on me also, he is the kind of stop what your doing and do this for me, get this information, asap. He dumped something on me yesterday, and i counter back with well, the head of this dept really should have that information and her name is xyz. His reply is well let me know what she says when you contact her to get this information.
Also need to deal with MIL issue today. I need to leave her a message she seems to be mad at me because i was in florida last month and did not contact her, H told here mom and i were there, go a message a few weeks ago of when did you get back from florida, i will call you later and that was 4 weeks ago. We always talked at least every other week. My message to her will be i am sorry you feel that angry that i did not call you, but this trip came up last minute and i took my mom. I am sorry you feel the way you do. we will see what happens with this
bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
well, nothing new to update, bear is still in hybernation mode, I hurt my ankle the other day, and its killing me. I have to face the fact that if I am not better by tomorrow, i have to go to the ER for evaluation and xray.
Pisses me off that h has been watching me for the last days limping around asked once what was wrong, and not one word since. Why am i surprised at this. And really it was just monday and this am, for last night he did not come in till 3am. "staff meeting"
I still have to fix this banking issue, today, i found a message yesterday at home so i need to find out what is going on. I have not called mil, or ehs about lawyer. Just cannot find the motovation due to being so buried in work.
Need to get some inspiration and get my bear butt in gear. Need a good swift kick, or 2x4
bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
Its not our fault its their fault. Both pointing at each other. Now i never informed the dvc that i had a checking account so how they took the money out of there to me, non banking person is just mindblowing. They made the mistake of where the money was supposed to come from. When i opened the account i changed nothing, i even said to the woman this will not effect my loan payment to dvc right. No mrs bear it will not. Well saturday a statement comes to the house saying i am overdrawn on my checking account by 75 dollars and they hit me with a 32 bounced check fee. So i spent almost 2 hours of work off time (i had to take) and go and try to settle this. Know what i get from the credit union. Humm, we dont know how this happened we will start an investigation. So for the time being i had to have them transfer money to my checking to cover the payment for the dvc, and there will be a payment taken out on the 1st. But this will not go on till the first for if i do not get an answer by 2pm tomorrow I will close the checking account. Oh and they did me a favor and credited my account the 32 dollars the charged me for a bounced check fee. WOW. See i knew this checking account was a mistake.