I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with another tough situation, and probably one that makes all the other stuff seem easy by comparison.
Hi Deauxlie (and imt),
I feel like I'm eavesdropping, sorry. I have no idea what's happening, but whatever is the tough situation, I hope it will resolve itself really soon.
Sending you ((((((((positive vibes))))))))))!
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with another tough situation, and probably one that makes all the other stuff seem easy by comparison.
Hi Deauxlie (and imt),
I feel like I'm eavesdropping, sorry. I have no idea what's happening, but whatever is the tough situation, I hope it will resolve itself really soon.
Sending you ((((((((positive vibes))))))))))!
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Hey D, was just checking on you. All the best to you & your family. Hugs.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Thanks so much for your thoughts, vibes, and caring.
I don't have any real answers yet but I'm feeling much better and more able to handle whatever comes up when we get them. I'll explain more at that time. I'm DBing life right now and changing what we can while trying not to assume until we have all the facts. :-)
Hey D, just wondering about you ! How are things ?
Any answers yet ?
((((((((Deauxlie))))))))
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Thanks so much for asking ((((SC)))) Just more questions right now, but all kinds of solutions we're trying out. We are learning a lot and, um, building lots of character. ;-\
Life is good. We're house hunting and think we finally found what we want :-) We looked at one last weekend with a gator swimming in the front, but I think we've finally found the one we've been dreaming of. The kid's back in school... I'm getting plenty of chances to wear my cute new shrimp boots. We've got a date "across the lake" on Saturday... I can't believe it can be like this.
I just had to wrap my head around some things for a while there, but I've missed you guys and prayed for y'all every day.
~~~off to catch up with everyone! Thanks again sweetie, hoping so much that you are doing great...
I've changed my display name and taken all the detail out of my signature, as I plan to direct my H to the forum. I think he could use the support and may be ready to accept it now.
I know it's the last thing you feel you have time for right now, but I'm thinking about you and I'll keep checking in to see if you've had a chance to post.
Hey Miss TMI, good to "see" you again. I sure hope your H is ready to let light back into your love and marriage.
We're soooo good. I had avoided even getting a "land line" until now so that "she" couldn't find us... but I did it! LOL. Time. I don't even check "his" phone anymore. We all use each others anyhow so we've got transparency worked into it. I'm even teaching him more about the internet, another thing I avoided to keep one more door closed. We've come to such a peace through all this. ANYONE who DB's will find a greater love, whether with their spouses or the next lucky person in their life.
I'll go "check up" on you soon. ((((TMI))) so good to hear from you....
