This morning has been a rough one. I just do not want to even go on. I asked my wife to have the kids call me before they went to school but they did not. I did text them and told them to have a nice day.
I even told my daughter to call me before school.
Expectations of the simplest things and I allow it to hurt me.
Well I'm not going to sit here and take it. I texted her. I asked you to have the kids call me before school. Please have them call me after school.
She did text back immediately. Sorry son didn't want to go to school.
I'm thinking second day and he is already starting this BS. I texted her. Well I could of helped with coaching him to go. I asked what was the reason for him not wanting to go.
No answer, or it is in text lala land. Then it came through. He was tired he just wanted to be with me.
I text he was so exited yesterday. He did say the bad kids were in his class. Maybe they are causing problems for him. They also need to go to bed earlier.
Then she goes dead again.
Yesterday was rough on these boards.
I just don't get it. Why does everyone insist in just trying to prove me wrong on the littlest of things.
I'm not going to curl up in a ball and take it.
So I wonder what person is going to post to me and tell me I was wrong for telling her the kids need to go to bed earlier. It's controlling, she doesn't want to hear it.
She knows it is wrong, but she insists on doing it. This is why she doesn't talk to me. Because she knows she is dead wrong on this issue and many others. This why she doesn't talk to her good friends. This is why pig girl is the validater. This is why she doesn't talk to her sister. This is why she gets so pissed when I tell her parents something and her parents give her the business. Because I'm telling on her. When I talk to dad, he runs to SIL, then SIL gives her the bad mom treatment, and then I look like the bad guy.
Here is another thing that totally stinks.
I reread AmyC's post when she implied I thought I was God. I was so infuriated that she implied that I just imediately stopped reading it. I AM NOT GOD! I do not imply that I'm God. I do not play God. When I read that my head imploded and created three new galaxies, and then I pooped a pineapple.
Amy, you are tasking me with something I don't feel I need to be tasked with. There is not one reference to the word family in the bible that I know of. Then you called me an idiot as any idiot can google something. Perhaps the ten commandments say it best or has some inkling to that proceed of family life. Honor your Father and Mother. Don't covet a neighbors wife. etc...
From the Catechism of the Catholic Church.
"The Christian family constitutes a specific revelation and realization of ecclesial communion, and for this reason it can and should be called a domestic church." It is a community of faith, hope, and charity; it assumes singular importance in the Church, as is evident in the New Testament. - CCC 2204
Whoever teaches must become "all things to all men" (I Cor 9:22), to win everyone to Christ.
Sister I'm already there.
So please knock off your dog and pony show.
BTW, the Pirate crap stays. It will stay until she decides to come home and clean the ship. Then she can do whatever she wants with it. It's eclectic and in good taste. My son loves it. My friends that visit love it.
It truely is my home. It is not her home anymore. I see it as a loss for her. My husband turned my livingroom into a pirate theme.
The pirate stuff. I told you it's a love story. Did you see the Princess Bride? My wife always thoght that Johnny Depp was attractive, bloody pirate now.
The home has been built on HIS cornerstone. Every room has a cross or some other religous attifact, saint statue etc.
The Pirate room has an antique picture of Jesus hanging on the main wall. Because He is the true captain. That picture was given to me by her Father.
I agree - keep the Pirate theme. If it is good for your PMA - do it. I took down some Pooh stuff and replaced it with a pictures of John Wayne and Humphrey Bogart - I love the one from Hondo with the dog next to him. I've considered getting some pictures of those dogs playing poker. I replaced the Pooh bedding. Gotta get more stuff that guys like myself like.
Do you still have an abundance of decorative pillows on your bed?
Do you still have an abundance of decorative pillows on your bed?
No her selfish personality took them, thank goodness. She took just about every decoration in the house. I'm surprised she didn't that the light bulbs. Ok she left me some things behind. All the expensive stuff she took.
One thing in particular she took was the painting of blessed mother that her parents got us for Christmas. It hung in our great room and was 3x5, it was awesome.
I'm glad she took them dang pillows. One it was my bed really. She never slept in there with me. Those 10 pillows had feather fringes. Those feathers would be everywhere.
I never used to make the bed anyway. Now I do before I leave for work. I keep it simple.
The meaning of the title Groundhog day. Did you see the movie Groundhog day? Every day is the same it keeps repeating itself. Endless loop.
I'm in an endless loop with her, and an endless loop with this board.
Pooh bedding on your master bedroom bed? Yeah that makes me want to get all lovey dovey. NOT! Don't tell me it was a fetish thing????
Kerry... Did you ever think you are better off with out them. I'm starting to think that. I mean how old is she? Pooh Bedding...?
Hey phil, I am sorry she didnt have the kids text you like she should have!! And I have 3 children, and my oldest is 16 (thinks she knows EVERYTHING LOL!)and she still has a bedtime I set!!
HEY!!! Did I see on another thread you posted on about you going to a Steeler game???? I think I am one of the only people in kansas, that is a huge Steeler fan lol! Infact, I have all kinds of Steeler stuff all over my house!!!
Hugs and hang in there! BG
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Groundhog day was a great movie. Bill Murray kept changing for the the better until he finally got it right.
I dont know why women like to clutter up a bed with decorative pillows.
My W did act like a big kid. Our kids never liked Winnie the Pooh and our house was decorated with that crap before the kids were conceived. Even had ceiling wall trim. I want to take all of the stuffed pooh, piglet and tigger's out to the gun range. The only good one of the bunch is Eeyore because he is so detached and could care less. In real life, Piglet, Rabbit, Roo and Eeyore would be prey to Pooh, Tigger and Owl.
Quote:
Eeyore walked into the forest and saw Piglet laying there with only one eye and one arm. "What happened to you?" Eeyore asked. "I bet Tigger one eye that he couldn't tear off one of my legs!" explained Piglet.
I am so much better off without her. Well, maybe not financially soon, but that will pass.
Here is the beauty part. I don't have to ask my overbearing, jealous, insecure wife if it is ok for me to go to the Steeler game.
Yep, and I still want her back... Love is blindness.
Kerry, ewwww ouch the Pooh and de piglet got der claws in you matey. Make em' walk de plank. aaaaaaaaare!
You know what would drive me nuts about her decorating. Everything had to be a swag. Swag here... Twig swag there. I had a coworker that had a wife that was basket crazy. But we can't have our beer can collection in the family room. We can't hold on to the past and keep out every single trophy we ever got.
But here is the kicker. She was afraid of the dark. One night I counted 26 nightlights on.
not all women are decorators like that lol, my house is full of sports stuff all over, AND we have cable becauze I HAVE to be able to watch my sports!!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
