Hi all, last thread locked, yippee another chapter in my never ending story ended. BeingMe thanks again for your reply, I know I should ignore her texts and calls but it gives me insight and of course a little laugh at how the tide is turning on them. would link to last thread if only I knew how. thanks for being there.
Wow! I'm second to post on your thread! I don't mean don't read the texts, but don't reply. Calls are a little more difficult to ignore if you actually pick up the phone, but perhaps you could just um/ah her?
Hope you're having a good week.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
BeingMe, thanks for posting, I know what you me about um/ah her, at the end of the day it is jack all to do with her, she trashed mine and my sons life and expects help from me, I will do as I please whatever her texts and calls say, like I said I feel the ball is back in my court now, and it hasnt been that way for three and half years, let them squirm and struggle, I dont think it should be me that feels sorry for them
Mandy, I think that OW is just what you say she is. I cannot figure out why she is trying to communicate with you???? It doesn't make a lot of sense to me, if I were her, you would be the LAST person I would try to talk to! Anyway, it does appear that they are having some problems with money. From what you said, her M.O. is to drain the til dry and it seems like she has done that. Don't let up about the money.
Hi truelove thanks for your reply and I wish you a lovely weekend also.Just an quick update to say had no letters from his solicitor re the phonecall, had no news on the bank accounts, had reports that she is the main one up at our old home ripping it from together and sorting it ready for rent, apparently ex gets seen there now and again but doesnt stop and get involved, boy oh boy she really is the ruler in the marriage, and he probably cant stay and help as it reminds him what a horrible man he as been to his son. would think it extremely funny if he let her sort the house out for him and then him leave her to move back in, anything is possible in this game.
I am totally confused and bewildered by what is going on now, I know I will not believe it until I see it, she as been calling me again to see where my lawyers letter as got to, she refered to this as "I havent received my letter yet" she also stated "I have spoke to my solicitor and I have spoke to my estate agent(realtor)" what I dont get is how she as taken over everything that ex should be doing it is his solicitor, the letter was going to him not her and it is his property so he should be dealing with the house, mmm very interesting how she has taken over because apparently this is how she as worked her other failed marriages. anyhow something else that she said is the fact that they cannot afford to go through lawyers this time and sit and wait whilst post goes from one lawyer to the other, so what she has done is gone to the banks and obtained the forms (how she as done that god only knows as her name isnt on the accounts and therefore she shouldnt be given any information whatsoever about them, so something tells me ex must have gone with her) so she claimed last night to be filling in the forms for him and writing a cover note for him to sign, then she offered to bring them here, I declined and told her to use the postal service, so fingers crossed but I wait with baited breath, we should find out tomorrow if she is telling the truth and if she has actually managed to get ex to sign over sons bank accounts. we'll wait and see. Something else that was interesting was in the letter to my lawyer it has been said that a family member is offering to loan them the money to pay me the amount I am due in order for them to get on with renting the place, mmm all very strange I think, or should I say dont know what to think, theyve no money they claim, someone is having to loan them money, after all they had, they are doing the old place up to be able to rent it, and she is being nicey nicey to me. my guard is up folks dont get me wrong, she is a deep devious woman and I wouldnt trust her as far as I could throw her. what still gets me though is how she is communicating with me and supposedly sorting financial things out after all this time and where is ex shouldnt it be him that comes to the forefront and deals with all this mess he as caused, something tells me life isnt rosey over the garden wall anymore, especially since she referred to him as a pain in the a**e mmm has the honeymoon period gone. hugs folks
That woman has got a cheek! I am glad that you are keeping your guard up. Just because they want to save a buck and not use a L, doesn't mean you should be suckered into anything.
It almost seems like she is trying to suck you into a conspiracy against your WAH. Something is definitely not kosher here.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
BeingMe,as I have said I am now at a stage in my life, where I have moved on and think ex is going to get what he deserves, and I dont that is in the too distant future, I dont however wish him bad things in fact sometimes I just wish he would come to his senses and realise what he as got involved with. Regards his lovely wifey, I revert back to the time three and half years ago when all this started, it had been going on maybe longer than I realised and I had my eyes opened in the may when I fount the text etc from her, he still lived at home and denied everything he then left in the july, we went on holiday in the august and on our return she was texting me asking if and what we had been getting up to, re sexual nature, I told her it wasnt her business but one text she did send me told me what type of woman she is, and the text read " how do we get him to tell both of us the truth, shall we set/stitch him up" I just thought to myself what a very unsavoury kind, she as split this family up, she wants to know my sexual behaviour with the man I have been with for fourteen years and now she wants me to sneak and do nasty things behind his back to satisfy her, so beingme you cud be right she is up to something whether it is conspiracy or what only time will tell, I do know gut feeling and everything that something over there is not kosher and it definately isnt the way old ex likes to live, but we will have to wait and see, I think he as done and got into something he will regret but wont know how to get out of it.
