Hugs Treese! I'm at a loss for words....everyone is right...don't go broke helping him...help yourself. He made this mess and he needs to fix it.
You are in my thoughts and prayers....I wish I had more enlightening things to say, but I'm still just in shock over this whole mess...I'm sorry you are in your position...but you are strong...you will come through this! I really believe that!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
I know you are scared. Let your H handle the mess he has made. You take care of you and your kids. You have gotten good advice from everyone. Get your head clear and you will be fine.
Treese, Please do not allow fear to rule your thoughts right now. You've got to keep a level head about you so that you can protect your children and you from what your h may be proposing to do about finances. Always remember, you have nothing to fear, but fear itself.
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
hello all.....just have a few minutes but I received flowers this morning at work....
From: A secret admirer..
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
I just got a text from H asking how myself and son were feeling...since I've been sick since Thanksgiving and son started yesterday....it was out of the blue....
I showed my flowers to son and D....d just looked at me and son wanted to know who they were from....I said a secret admirer and he just smiled...my bad side is hoping son will relay that to H...
Anyhow I thought I knew who sent them but I was wrong...so I have a secret admirer....wow....and the flowers are beautiful...purple roses...
Not feeling too bad today....got an email from my dad...made me cry....he loves me and my children so much....I very blessed...
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
I hope you find out who they are from. Intriguing minds around here want to know..........
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
