Thanks for your lovely posts. I had quite a nice week-end. We had snow and the landscape looked as if it was covered with icing sugar. Today it was sunny in the afternoon and I went for a walk before I met a GF. In the evening I went to an event where I met some other friends.
Snodderly: H seems to have got the fact that I will not pay anything towards the D.
He seems to be so confused. I asked him whether he agreed to one thing and he said yes. Then he goes and does something different. He also wrote he forgot it is winter where I live!!!!! Regarding a financial matter he wrote that HE does not trust me anymore!!!
At least he apologised for being grumpy. I am surprised that he quite often apologises for his bad behaviour. I noticed that most MLCers don't do that.
In a way I will be glad not have to deal with H's occasional irrational behaviour. It always upsets me a lot.
Hope you have a nice week. You can send me some of your snow.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The only time my H apologized for anything was when he cussed me out, he came back about 3 days later & told me he wanted to apologize for the language he used. I think he might have realized at that time that I had taped the whole convo. But it was too late, I had already turned it into my L, but thank goodness it wasn't used.
How far away are you & your H?
I hope you have a wonderful week & a great T'giving. You seem like such a sweet person, it's hard to believe that these things are happening to someone like you!
True, Step back and allow him to twist in the wind.
Enjoy the rest of your week.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you for your kind words and for always posting to me. I always look forward to reading your posts and would like to thank you for your continuous support.
I am getting so fed up with H. He wanted me to do something. He said that he does not trust me anymore. I said I would not do it and he just has to trust me. Of course, I immediately got an angry e-mail from H whether I am trying to cheat. I should be reasonable and do it.
I never thought that I would get to this point, but I think I would prefer not to hear from H anymore. I told him already last year that I don't want much contact if we are divorced, and I think I will keep it that way until he is normal, if he ever gets to that stage again!
I will be happy when the D is over.
Snodderly: I will try to enjoy the week. I am going to a club meeting tomorrow evening. When I went the first time there were some nice people there and I hope to meet them again. Have a lovely Thanksgiving and a nice week.
and even more that you always pop round to MY thread ! xxx