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Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep Kalni #1664986 12/03/08 10:33 PM
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ba065 Member B Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 767	Lisa: Snow today here too! Cold...only in the 20s. More of the same for the next two days and then the mid to upper 50s for the weekend! Yeah! Hope you had a good day today. Thinking of you! BA Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep ba065 #1664994 12/03/08 10:37 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	72 here now..... not much chance of snow! $;\)$

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep ba065 #1664998 12/03/08 10:38 PM
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OP One Day Member O Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,337 London UK	((((BA)))) (((Sunshine)))) BA- I don't know how you cope with the cold. I take it you don't build Jeff-snowmen and hug them? I have three duvets on my bed and am thinking I might need one more on top to stop myself getting shilly at night. I'm like the princess in the Princess and the Pea (LOL- that could actually be the story of my WAS and my S. One upon a time, there was a beautiful princess who married her prince but cooked too many peas!) Sunshine- a change is what worries me. If H changes I'll have to change. That will be OK if it means me needing more detachment and moving away. The opposite is the worry, and I know you understand that.

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep One Day #1665001 12/03/08 10:39 PM
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OP One Day Member O Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,337 London UK	Jeff- I'm there. Just give me 10 hours!

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep One Day #1665003 12/03/08 10:40 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	I'll be at the airport! Then you won't need to hug snowmen!

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep Virtually_Handsome #1665019 12/03/08 10:53 PM
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OP One Day Member O Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,337 London UK	Perfect- I'm on my way $;\)$ If only, although if I'm on an extending being out of work holiday next year I might well pay you a visit. maybe we could go and play a round of golf?! L. xx

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep One Day #1665029 12/03/08 11:12 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	Originally Posted By: One Day Perfect- I'm on my way $;\)$ If only, although if I'm on an extending being out of work holiday next year I might well pay you a visit. maybe we could go and play a round of golf?! L. xx If you get anywhere near here you had better pay me a visit! I'm sure we could play a round of golf!

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep Virtually_Handsome #1665042 12/03/08 11:27 PM
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AliSuddenly Member A Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 5,270	Hey I really like Kalni's point.. that you sense a change, but the WAS is bound to be tentative and wary.. and especially as he was in a PA for a long while.. so I wonder if things have cooled between them? I was thinking.. him moaning less implies he is feeling less fed up/stressed, but then contacting you more would NOT imply that his improvement in mood was to do with improvements with the aub.. as he would surely be contacting you less? Its like a logic puzzle (I used to love those as a kid) Night! Al xxx Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep AliSuddenly #1665290 12/04/08 05:18 AM
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MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	LOL Love the princess and the pea analogy! Like the music idea for a present too. Although I have to LOL at your giving him some of his stuff! Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: I wish you'd never learned to weep MichelleLT #1665945 12/04/08 08:20 PM
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ba065 Member B Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 767	Lisa: As we both know, change is inevitable...change isn't necessarily bad...it can be good! None of us know our futures but we know how we can act and react to what happens. Sometimes we don't always do what we know we should...but we do know... As always, I'm thinking of you! If you come to the states to play golf, I'll play too (I suck at golf)! (((((((((Lisa)))))))) BA Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally

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