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Please help me understand why you do it. I've just found ea/pa after sending myself crazy with his lies. I'm not making any decisions right now, I think he wanted me to do it.

He's just not the person I thought he was. I need to decide if I want him back. affair I could forgive but how he lied lied lied while I cried and became a wreck.

He is saying it's not what you think? He has already started justifying it to himself.

Last man in the world.

So, is it pure love that we are on this site, getting our hopes up with one text message that may show a sign they bother?

bet she gets xxxin her texts. Makes me sick.


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"Please help me understand why you do it."

Because at some point.. you just have to.

"I've just found ea/pa after sending myself crazy with his lies."

Is that a deal breaker?

Does that mean the end?

"He's just not the person I thought he was."

This gets us all in trouble.

What do you want?


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.


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I want him to beg me to forgive him, tell me he loves me and it's all been a silly misunderstanding.

There, not much is it.

I don't know what I want. And looks like he doesn't care so I'm pretty much stuck.

I'm sorry if anyone was offended. Of course I know why you are all here. I was feeling strong and angry last night but of course, that doesn't last long.


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Hi, am sorry but I have no words of wisdom for you. Just a messege that we don't diserve it! Know that I don't know you but my heart goes out to you with love from one human being in the most pain I have ever felt in my whole life to another in the same situation. We could both just use a hug. I will put you on my watch list and you can write to me if it helps. I think we just need to do our best to be strong. I just keep telling myself that the only thing i can control is how I respond, how I can be a better father and with all my heart to keep the faith and hope that my wife will want to work it out with me.

Keep you head up and try to never live with any more regrets, that's my goal.


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