A New Decade - Part 2

[Kenn]

Hey MsM,

how are you? Hope all is going well. Life is too hectic for me - move, school, new job, drinking (but just for social reasons LOL ), traveling for work..... argh!

I did want to stop in and let you know I miss our chats. Need to make more time. Hope all is going well with XH.

[JCJ]

Hi Ms M

I just was wondering, with your exh now, do you initiate your meet ups or does he or is it a mixture of both?

Hope you're well

J

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Kenn, Nice to see you popping around now & then. Sounds like things are ok with your W & your life. Good to hear.

Hey Julia, Well when we were working on D papers, I prodded him to get it done, yet he always chose the day & I always agreed. Now it's kinda half in half - but mostly when he suggests. His b'day dinner & 4th of July, I suggested - he agreed & showed up. The other Sundays have been his choosing & me agreeing. This last Sunday I left him a message asking him to go to an airplane show here. No response, so I went by myself. He emailed me on Monday, saying sorry & what he had done. Strange he cut down a tree at BMF, mom's house to make some money. My XH hates heights. Very odd, that he said it was taller than the tree he cut down (a few years back) at OUR house. Since he has some extra cash he asked me if I still wanted to go to the Ren Fair with him. I said yes. We will see if we actually go.

So mostly, I leave it to him & ask occasionally.

[JCJ]

So how's life with you Missy?

[MichelleLT]

Yeah! Long time no see!

[MsMelancoly]

Yeah, I've just been lurking about. Had a stint where I just didn't feel like posting anything. Most likely that was from the drama around me. Mainly, my sisters drama with taking an 8 month contract job in Dallas & then her stressing about getting a different car. She totally over reacts to things, which makes it difficult. She left last week & our friends went on vacation too, so I was pet sitting & my older cat became sick again. Last week I had 5 dogs & 4 cats to take care of at my house. Luckily my 17 yr old cat is doing better again. So was total chaos here! Now I'm getting ready for my dad to visit this weekend. I'm so terrible - but I just want my peace, alone & quiet time. Hopefully that will be next weekend.

Nothing much new in my sitch. Haven't seen my xh since July 4th. He's been busy & I'm tending not to care much these days. (shrug) We email once in awhile when I initiate it & well, I guess the phone has the plague or something!! LOL

[MichelleLT]

I've been doing more lurking than posting, especially on my own thread.

So I definitely sympathize.

Hope things calm down for ya soon!

I know how it is to want that personal time! I locked myself in the bathroom to take a bubble bath with candles last night lol.

[JCJ]

You have phone plague too?? lol! Men!

Sorry things have been hectic, makes you appreciate the quiet times though I guess.

[Sanderika]

Hello Ladies,

The phone plague is in Maine too. It's reached epidemic proportions for sure...

Have only heard from my H once since we postponed our D again....YES, I am keeping track!!!!

It's funny, I am right there with you all. I am lurking about and posting to others and have no desire to post on my own. What is up with that? I know it feels wierd somehow to write there. It's not that I don't want to share what is happening, it's more like I have buried my feelings about all that is happening right now. It isn't making any sense to me.

OH well,

Take care all.....

Sanderika

[JCJ]

The media is all about swine flu but this phone plague seems to be reaching epidemic proportions. The US, England where next??

Hope you are having a wonderful weekend. There is sun here - woop, woop!! I have a slight heat rash on my arms - so exciting