Good Evening, MWG got a wonderful surprise early Saturday morning. Suddenly, out of the blue, her H came home... @ 3 am. He seems ok, and when told that the family could not take him leaving again, he said this is for good. MWG is very calm and peaceful. She is happy, but I think, guarded a little. They have been talking more, and this is a welcome change.
This time seems different.
I thought you would like to know.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
MWG ask me to post this for her. THis is cut and pasted from an emial to me.
We are fine.
There was no magic words or actions that occurred. It was just the way Bob Steinkemp describes it happening....at any given moment, it just happened.
Everyone is doing well.
Everyone is kind and the kids are grateful he is back.
Today, I shared with H that the kids are thrilled to have him back and he cried.
He said he is no longer in a state of depression but has anxiety attacks every once in awhile. He has to keep busy to keep his mind from racing.
He said he is not going anywhere again..............
This was the best Mother's Day weekend ever.
This was God's doing, not mine and I am grateful for that and I appreciate all of the prayers from so many of you.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Good heavens!!!!! I hope for MWG's sake that he is really serious this time. He's been a mess for so long, I hope he appreciates all the sacrifices she has made for him and is willing to do the hard work now.
Please pass along my best to her.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
lastnight i asked him if he wouldn't mind telling me what made him come home so late in the night....
he said things had been quite tense between them for a long time and it was getting worse.
he said all of a sudden, she kicked him out at 3AM, accused him of cheating on her with me (I laughed at this) and also, she was ticked off that he would not divorce me.
i asked him how he felt about her kicking him out and he said she has some major problems and was always afraid she would do something and his gut feeling is that he is relieved and said that it is different this time, is glad to be out of there.
i did tell him that my concern is that she will call and beg him to return and he said he did not think so and that she has not called him at all. i asked if she found someone else and he said he does not know.
he also said he could not leave his family by getting a divorce.
there you have it.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
I would sleep with one eye open. I would have felt better about the situation had he left on his own, but with her throwing him out leaves some unresolved issues IMO.
That is totally inappropriate. Please do not post on my thread(s)any longer.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
