Locked!! And I really liked that thread too... it's a cold, cruel world out there.
About to get my kiddos their lunch and get them packed to be picked up by J's mom. He's supposed to meet them there later when he gets back in town. Check in later.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Getting ready to go out for the night. Planning on having some fun, and not dwelling on the fact that I'll be missing my kiddos for the 4th.
Oh, on a funny note- My d4 decided to lock my master bath door from the inside before she left. Now all my stuff to get ready is locked inside. About to break out the tools and take the doorknob apart. Again. yeah, it's not the first time. LOL
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Gotta love kids. Have a great night. I am sure the kids will be missing you too. But hopefully they will spend some quality time with their dad. Well, one can hope can't one?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
LOL- Didn't have to break the door down. It did take me about 45 min to break in though. Gotta love kids. Had a really good time out last night. I'm looking forward to my plans today as well. I hope the kids are having a good time with their dad. My son was not happy about going, and that is a hard lesson for a kid to learn. The legal system doesn't care what people want to do. uggggg.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Glad you had fun last night. Yep, the kids are the ones who suffer most in all this. But I have a feeling your kids will be ok - having you as their mother.
Awww thanks guys!! Hey t-- nope. stupid door has no little hole to pop the lock. That would be nice. lol Yep-- 45 min. I said a few choice words to it. I'm thinking it wasn't scared though.
Yeah, I did have a good time last night. Came in waaaayyyy too late. lol Trying to make tonight a good one too.
B!!! Get out and get those pics girl. I'll holler at y'all! Have fun at the fireworks t!! Later
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Well, found out this afternoon after I posted that J never showed at his mom's house to meet the kids. They stayed up til 1 am waiting for him. MIL finally put them to bed then.
I don't know that I have ever been so mad. Then he texts me excuses. He was with the gf, and couldn't seem to tear himself away from her to see his kids even though he now lives five hours away. They came into town, and were not very far away, at her parent's place. Unbelievable. So... after they both were texting me and him making excuses and the gf calling me a b and saying I always ruin everything..lol... (cuz I won't violate the court order and let her be around my kids) I lost it with him when he decided to call me. It was not pretty. I have been "nice" this whole time to both of them, even though they do not deserve it. We had one UGLY conversation.
I dunno, you can screw with me all you want and I'll be fine. When you screw with my kids..... not so much. I don't know if he ever showed out there or not. I would have picked up the kids, but the MIL had lots of things planned that they wanted to do. I figured that would just create more drama. I have a feeling things will not be friendly between me and J for quite a while.
The last part of the conversation we had he screamed at me, threatened me, and hung up. I am deciding what to do with that. It's hard to believe. His mom was in tears on the phone with me apologizing to me that her son has become this person. She said she just didn't know what to say. I felt sorry for her. Alright... guess I'll stop here. I could go on, but won't.
Hoping tomorrow will be a better day for all of us.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
