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JCJ #1852991 10/09/09 02:13 PM
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Gosh, there is a fairly new person signed up here with my h's name. I checked, not even likely to be him but still, it gave me a minor heart attack!!


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Wow! That is strange, I would have freaked out a bit as well.

Good to hear you have been doing some fun things. Your fencing sounds so cool & a great way to meet men! Are there advanced courses?


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OMG! I can imagine your heart probably jumped into your throat on that one! EEEEKKK!!!

The party sounds like a blast! How interesting!!!! Did you go with the flannel pj's or the hot lingerie? smile


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Dearest Julia,

I know it has been such a long journey to your decision, and that it must be painful to decide to sue for divorce. But I wholeheartedly support you and I am eager to hear about all of the adventures in your new life, which is already starting to bloom! You've done so much work and come so far. You deserve someone who is growing and evolving just like you smile

I'm excited about this fencing! And the pajama party with actors...? Your adventures sound like a movie smile set in London

that is crazzzy about someone with your h's name signing up on DB...????? I always wondered if that would happen to any of us, and even if they would be able to "find" us as newbies in the wilderness of the bulletin boards. but seriously, girl, you have NOTHING to hide.

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Strange about the new DBer. That would have given me a heart attack as well.

Glad to hear you are doing well.

I wish I could sue for adultery here. Lol. It sounds so much more satisfying than filing for divorce in a no-fault state where they don't care who did what to whom and split everything, debts and assets, evenly. Except student loans, I get stuck with all of mine lol.

Ah well, I'm sure it'll be a bit of a roller coaster, but I am glad you are feeling okay about doing it.


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Ms M, I am looking into more classes. It is so much fun and really good exercise.

Mishka, well I was going to go for silky stuff but I thought everyone would be wearing that so I went for these which I had already

David and Goliath

It was good to be different smile

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You've done so much work and come so far. You deserve someone who is growing and evolving just like you... but seriously, girl, you have NOTHING to hide.

Thanks T smile

And Michelle great to see you smile I was thinking about you and wondering how you are.

I have a cold at the moment which is annoying but I am taking lots of vitamin c. The papers are drawn up and ready but I am letting it all absorb for a while before proceeding.


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JCJ #1854866 10/13/09 02:34 PM
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Those are adorable pj's!!!!!!! LOVE 'EM!

File the papers when the time is right for you and not a moment sooner.


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Sorry you aren't feeling well, but glad you are pushing the vitamins and taking care of yourself.

Nice PJs!


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Hi Julia,

How's it going? Hope you are on top of the cold and ready to enjoy the weekend

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The cold is nearly gone thank goodness!

I guess as a side note it is two years today that h left. I feel quite ok though, seems like it is just a normal day.

Looking forward to the weekend. It is a quite one. I wsa supposed to be going up to stay with my sister and nephews but I cancelled it as I don't want to pass on the cold and I fancied a quiet weekend instead. Plus the train fare is so expensive and I have just had to pay for my new passport. What an expense that is!! still, at least it means I can go on my travels smile


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