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Hey friends, thank you all for your kind words and prayers.

I am ok. As my friend, Mach, told me, I needed some time to find my balance, to heal and to grieve. I did that in the quiet.

I have come to accept that my h is not the man I thought he was. He is broken and lost. But, that is really not my problem to fix. Nor is it a reflection on me. He is who he is. And he has to live with the consequences of his actions. And although I have to live with the fallout, I will let it break me.

I am moving forward on my journey. I am looking at this as another step in the process. I continue to grow. I continue to believe in the beauty in others.

So, I can choose to wallow in the unfairness of it all or I can choose to believe in me. I choose me.


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I did too.....

Simply amazing BM.....

The reason that you are you...

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There you go girl! Awesome!


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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Thank you, Mach. I know you did and thats the reason you are you, my friend.

Hey SoCo, gotta keep putting one foot in front of the other or you fall down, right?


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Yes mam, that's right. One foot at a time....and when u do fall down- get up, dust your ass off, and get moving again. wink


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
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I have dusted my ass off so much, it should be gone by now.

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Is that how you get rid of it?? No wonder..... smile

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I have dusted my ass off so much, it should be gone by now.


Ass duster. I now have a great idea for a new invention. wink





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Hey MW, there you go. Remember me when you make your first million - LOL!

I went to my first computer class last night. I was a little late (got a little lost - go figure) and went running into the classroom. I walk in saying sorry, I got lost, the dog ate my homework, my mom made me throw out the garbage. Before I know it, everyone is laughing, the teacher says, oh, I am glad we waited for you - you are going to make this very interesting.

She has no idea what she is in for - LOL!

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awesome


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