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Ok, my thoughts too........glad I'm not the only one that sees that too. He has major depression issues.


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So after MC yesterday it became pretty clear (finally) that my H needs some IC first. He's in a very low spot. All three of us agreed to this as well. So we are stopping MC for now. I looked at a townhome last night. In a sense I feel as though I need to continue moving forward and not sit around and wait for him to come around anymore. If he does great, if not well my son and I are already on our way ....problem is we are separated now....and need the child support to be OK in the townhome.
Not sure what to do............


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Would he stop paying if you moved?



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living in limbo

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Right now he is living at our house. My son and I are out my parents house. I am still taking care of all the bills. Our finances are still together. He isn't currently paying me child support. I would need child support to afford or be ok in the townhome. Not sure if I should say here your bills and the ones for the house.

Sucks, I have 48 hours to let the townhome know if I'll take it. It's wonderful and don't want to pass it up but would need some help.


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