It's complicated but it's mine #28

[kat727]

Thanks for dropping by. I do bite my tongue quite a bit. Everyone can have their own thoughts afterall but sometimes, I just have to let it out! lol

Things would be so much better if we stopped and realized that we are all in this together. anway enough of that for now.

Congratulations on being engaged. There is life after divorce! I am not rushing but hoping for better things just around the bend.

Stop by anytime.

kat

[kat727]

We need more of this:

http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/news/world...l-1225844047190

forget no-fault!!

kat

[MichelleLT]

Dude! 5 yrs S but not D yet! WTF is he dragging his feet for when he's shacked up with his mistress!

I wish CA wasn't no fault. I wouldn't have gotten any money but I might have less debt LOL.

Not to mention I would LOVE having a piece of paper signed by a court saying grounds were adultery.

My vindictive streak I guess LOL.

[kat727]

Why buy the cow when you are getting the milk for free??!! Maybe she won't look so wonderful with that big debt around her neck! LOL

kat

[kat727]

We put more transmission fluid in the car and looks as if it is leaking(that or they spilled quite a bit). Ugh. My head hurts.

kat

[karen43]

Sorry, Kat, tomorrow will be better!!! ((((((Kat))))))))

[hopeful4her]

Hello dear.

Wanted to drop in and say hi. After the kids went to bed last night, I stayed up 'til about 2am catching up with you and Karen. You've been busy!

And you have your own ABC's, huh?

Take care and chat with you later.

[kat727]

Roger, you are jsut being too funny! I don't have an ABC gang, they are J,K and S. LOL

Really as I have said before, J is a friend. Hang out, text and talk on the phone type of friend. At least at the moment I don't see it being more. K...well there is certainly something there. Something to be said for being at the same place emotionally at the same time. S, still have strong feelings for but I am just going with the present. The future will catch up with me later.

Hope you are doing well. I've missed you.

kat

[kat727]

My dad doesn't do alot with automatics so he is a bit puzzled with the car. Oh well, just go with the flow on that one. I can still drive S17 around for a while, just kind of messes with any weekend plans.

K and I texted a bit last night. I was just feeling so blah so went to bed early. He was working on my taxes but I don't think he has them done yet. I kind of need to know how much they are so that I will know what I can afford to fix right now on S17's/my car. Hopefully today.

kat

[kat727]

It turns out to be some strange part that initially looks like a bolt but isn't one. S17 and my Dad worked on the car for a few hours and they just left a bit ago.

I caved and let my Mom know that I am talking with K again and then even that he took us out last week. Umm, didn't say that until my Mom blurts out that my Dad never liked him!! Great, so I get to not let them know about him for the moment, not a problem because we aren't dating or anything but if we do, I told my Mom that I just wouldn't share that part of my life because I don't need the grief. I want to enjoy this regardless of what they think. But I don't want to hear about it either.

kat