Good morning. I haven't posted in a while but here's my original thread. linky
W moved out on 10/31 so it's been almost 3 months. During this time, we haven't discussed our relationship once. Is that "normal"? Okay, I realize none of this is "normal". Am I being impatient? I kind of want to either get it over with & figure out if we're going to work on things or get the big D already. I don't even know if I want to work things out...but being in limbo is so confusing.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
are you "legally" separated or just living apart with no agreement?
your W may just want some breathing room before she gets into the R talk with you again. limbo IS confusing for sure, but i think now is the time for you to allow yourself to focus on you. it does feel like a waiting game...but if she's not ready to talk, being impatient with her is not going to work in your favor. think about what it is you really want and set goals for yourself.
but you are right, there is nothing normal about ANY of this.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
We're just living apart. There are no "legal" seperations in my state. You're right. I really need to figure out what it is that I want. Honestly, if W came to me today & said she'd like to work on things, I don't know what I'd say.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
Am I being impatient? I kind of want to either get it over with & figure out if we're going to work on things or get the big D already. I don't even know if I want to work things out...but being in limbo is so confusing.