I've been checking out the resources and am going to start reading the success stories soon. Have gotten lots of good advice over in newcomers but feel this is where I need to be now!
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Thanks Jack! I hve been lucky to have Old Pilot visitng with me in newcomers and have figured out that it is different dealing with the MLCer. Have read some of your posts and am looking forward to your wisdom!
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Welcome to this board. The advice is still DB but as Jack said it is a little different. There are great people on this board and a wealth of wisdom. You can put a link on your thread in newcomers to come here and then ask a moderator to lock your thread(hit the notify in the corner and tell then what you want), if you wish. I agree that you are in the right place now.
(((CW))) sorry you're having a rough day too. Take care...
Maybe I'll join you over here.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Welcome to the big leagues. We do things a little bit differently, but the end goal is the same. I think you know that by now though.
You will get lots of good advice and the necessary 2x4 pity party busting....but overall we will share the best of us as long as you are giving the best of you.
I called a realtor today to ask for a market value analysis on our house. He is coming Friday. I believe that we owe more on it than we could sell it for in today's market especially if we had to sell it "as is"...a lot of unfinished projects here. My L recommended I do that after I told her that I didn't think that the kids and I would be able to stay here in the event of a divorce. I guess it just made this VERY real to me. (as if H leaving and filing D didn't make it real enough)But now, we are talking about possible moving and selling the only home that the kids have ever lived in...so it did get me down some today. Anyway, had my cry and doing good now!!!
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The business side of this always stinks....but that is the nature of the beast.
So what needs to be done in the house? Are these projects you can handles yourself and turn into growing experiences? Sometimes just painting a room can be a growing experience of accomplishment and change in scenery.
