Just checking in. My other thread is burried since I haven't been on it in a while.
Well, spring is going in full swing. My S has soccer and baseball going so we are super busy. I am busy preparing for state testing at school (uggg stressful) and life is just flying along.
Still having strange ex encounters, but not as much. He has been a no show at most of S games. He has better things to do, like go get tats with tink. (lol)
We had a soccer tourney and it was Ex weekend last weekend. His mommy did accompany them so that kind of kept him in check. I went ahead and took BF with me, since I have decided that I am not going to worry about if ex decides to act crazy or not. I will just let the police sort it out if he goes nuts. He did behave himself, but I do believe A LOT of it was b/c his mom was there and he HAS to act "nice" so that he can continue to play the it's all her fault game.
The kids are doing pretty well. My D mentions things often that her dad has told her that she is worried or confused about and we just talk about them. Poor thing is only 4, must be hard to understand all of this nonsense. She is very clingy to me right now and always wants to be right in the same room with me.
S is doing well. Still deals with his dad's strange episodes with humor. He recently had to take a writing benchmark test and the topic was "Your Favorite Family Member" and he wrote about his mom and all the reasons why. I sure do love that kid!
Ex still goes from tactic to tactic in order to try to get a rise out of me, but I don't give it to him anymore. From being nice, to blame, to threats, to whining. He even attempted to make me jealous (lol) during the tourney weekend by texting me about all of the "hot" girls he was flirting with at the mall. LMAO!! Uhhh yeah, go get 'em. Don't think your "fiance" tink would care for that too much but whatever.
Overall life is good.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
So, last night ex calls me at 6:09 asking what time the baseball game is. I have text and told him numerous times. He also knows the website to look up the schedules. He always claims he doesn't know. The game was at 6:15. No way he would make it from where he lives in order to even see any of it. I'm sure he did this on pupose.
Then when we get home I am trying to get kids ready for bed, dinner, homework, etc. at 8:30. He calls 10 times in a row and texts to have the kids call him. He gets irrate if I do not answer the phone on the first call. Gee, it is kind of busy when I am trying to do everything all by myself.
I call him back and he yells and screams and acts ridiculous b/c I did not answer the phone. I told him I was busy and would return his calls when I could and ended the convo.
Wow. Especially to think that he doesn't answer three fourths of the time and sends it to voicemail when I call for a legitimate reason.
Sheesh.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
