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I have always heard the reason the women look at the shoes is to note the "shoe size"...

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#2 requires a twirl. real men dont twirl. lol.

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Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
I have always heard the reason the women look at the shoes is to note the "shoe size"...

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#2 requires a twirl. real men dont twirl. lol.

Why do you thing women grow clumsy and drop stuff (keys, phones, lipstick) on the ground of front of men? It certainly isn't to measure their reflexes! smile


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Originally Posted By: mindfull
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
I have always heard the reason the women look at the shoes is to note the "shoe size"...

Cha!

Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
#2 requires a twirl. real men dont twirl. lol.

Why do you thing women grow clumsy and drop stuff (keys, phones, lipstick) on the ground of front of men? It certainly isn't to measure their reflexes! smile


AFWAW---Key west? Awesome! And good for you moving forward and embracing your Inner Gucci....

Mind...seriously we have to hit the town together sometime! smile


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BBJ - Hahahaha Ya like that move, huh?

I'm thinkin' by the sounds of things we need to drop something in front of AFW! smile


Sorry, AFW - We (I) am dragging your thread down. HUGS, and I'm so happy for you. I really am. Your daughter is a lucky young lady to have you looking out for her.


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Update, I got my divorce date set for 2 June. It has been difficult to concentrate. My stepson had his kid, a baby boy but he has had little motivation to talk to me or his mother let alone get a freaking job.

My wife got rid of my daughter's dog as well. My D was very upset and has had a difficult time with the whole ordeal.

While I have not initiated contact w/ my wife, she keeps freaking calling me when she needs stuff. Most of the time I don't respond but she is persistant. Today, it was her calling because she wanted me to go get the dog back because the new owner was contacting her saying that the dog was bad. Turns out the new owner just wanted to bitch but had no intention of giving the dog back. My wife started crying on the phone saying that nothing ever works out for her. Ugh. Then she asked why we didn't work out and started to get ugly. I said, you know, I've noticed a trend. She said, what's that? I said, whenever you need me, you're very nice but when I say something you don't like to hear or I don't react the way that I like you get ugly. Hmmmmmm.

I have not told my wife when the court date is for my divorce. Should I? Or should I leave that to my lawyer to contact her?

Additionally, I finally got orders. I'm not going to Key West. I was disappointed but I did get my second choice--Tucson, AZ. I haven't told the wife about the orders yet--not sure when I should, maybe after the divorce is final? This location will probably be better for my daughter. I can always move to Key West after I retire from the military.

My wife has had to take a parttime job so she pay her bills. Everytime I talk to her she constantly complains about money.

I am having a hard time concentrating lately. Between work, trying to sell my house and making sure my daughter is doing ok I'm stretched pretty thin somedays. Throw in some drama from my wife and it's no wonder I'm stressed somedays. It doesn't seem like she's learned a damn thing from this whole ordeal.

I'm waiting for this to get easier but it doesn't seem to be.


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Jeff is in Tucson! Do you golf?

It will get easier. Distance, km and timewise will make it easier.
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I lived in Tucson briefly during the 90s. GREAT town!!! The desert is beautiful in its own way -- I really liked it. My wife -- ehh, not so much.

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We were stationed at DM & I really liked it there!


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There is a DB gathering being planned for the Tucson area--how soon do you move?? Sorry your W is being a PITA. My exH is the same way.

What he sees as me 'supporting him'= agreeing with everything his says and blindly following his plans without question or argument. If ever I interject a question or opinion, he turns nasty and says I never support him...and whenever his plans don't turn out he immediately looks oustide himself for someone to blame. That gets exhausting!


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