W and I are back in Love again!!! We've been staying together as a family for over a week now...Its is like HEAVEN!!! I am so glad that things turned around...its like a new lease on life...as a complete family unit!!!
The kids are super happy, D6 is back to her old self again...even gives us hugs w/out asking for them!!! S3 is the same, he didn't really know what was happening anyways, but was starting to ask some questions...
Our 8th Anniv was Sept 21st, we had a great dinner out and talked about future thoughts and problems w the past. She says I am listening better and I am a little softer...I'm trying to be better...but it just feels like I'm being myself!!! And she is talking and getting rid of the deamons she has been keeping. She realizes now that what she thought was horrible and unchangable, really wasn't that bad and could have been different if she had mentioned it to me. We start our MC tomm at 9 am, we are both excited...We'll be better than ever I know and she does too!!!
So we are off and running! I feel whole again, ready to work and keep nurturing the flower of our Love...
Good luck to all and THANK YOU every one for all the help...
Well, I thought we were on the right track...everything was going soo smoothly.
Just 2 nights ago W tells me, 'I don't feel intamate towards you any more and I don't know why. You're a great father, and person I just don't Love you like a wife should...' She doesn't want to leave this time, she has called a IC and we are going to she our MC for some sort of guidance. She wants to try and see if something happens.
She is under a lot of stress at work, boss is a micro mgr and hovers over everything and slightest mistake is blown up, money is tight, she is getting on herself bc she has put on a few pounds, a lot of her stomache is from her fibroids...
I am sooo confused...and hurt
any insight would be really welcomed
M37, W36, D6, S4 M 9/02 sep 01/10 back together 9/10
W and I are in MC and it seems to be opening some locked doors in her mind. She is still stuck back 5 years ago when I wasn't such a 'good husband'...We talk and hang out like nothing is wrong...The only thing that is missing is the sex part of our R...She is trying to get feelings back but isn't doing much, in my esstimation, she is just waiting for them to reappaer...I intiate hugging and body rubs...
How does one get those feelings back? I know you just can't wait and hope, you have to do something to get them back...But I don't want to be the one to tell her what she needs to do.
I feel, most or a lot of it, is because of hormone changes from her fribroids and pre-menapausal effects...
If Sandi2 is around, it would be great hearing from you...or any one with insight on this...would be greatly apprieciated
