Partner left after 9 yrs - reconciled now married!

[mishka422]

ALI!!!!! So wonderful to hear from you! You are greatly missed. I would love hearing more updates about your sweet little Daisy and your beautiful marriage. Personally, I couldn't be happier for you all. You fought the good fight and WON!

Hugs to you all!

[kat727]

I am really close to my 13 year old, soon to be 14. She is already planning that trip to Ireland I have been promising for her graduation in 4 years. Actually I am close to all the kids in different ways but D13 and I are very much alike.

I remember how cute they were as toddlers and you think, ok, why not another one? By the 4th one, I was done, finished. I saw a baby and I didn't even think I want another one. lol Every stage has it wonders, enjoy them all.

hugs, kat

[MichelleLT]

(((Ali))) Glad you all are doing so well! So glad to see your update.

[naej]

Hi Ali, so thrilled that all is well with you and Daisy sounds a poppet. It is hard work but it was one of the happiest times for me. I adored that stage but once they learnt the word no hmmm.
Thank you for your kind words they meant alot to me.
Yes he treats me well,I am like 18yrs again (blush. So strange in fact we both wonder how it all happened and so fast.I am sure neither of us would have been suited 20 years ago.
I learnt alot here,very slowly I might add but it has all added to this unexpected bonus late in my life.
I pop back from time to time so I hope to see all the old timers contented and fullfilled.
Who'd have thunk it,back in those dark days.

[pie]

Ali, just had to say how often I still think and wonder about you and how you are doing, same with Kalni. In those very dark days, I read and hung off every single word of yours and Kalnis threads - trying to make sense of what happened to me, why. Your threads helped me a lot, just made me feel better when things started looking up for you both

I'm SO glad to see that you and Kalni are still doing well. I imagine I will think and wonder and check on this thread to see how you guys are doing for the rest of my life, just cause I feel like I sort of know you - from having kept up with your threads for so long

Please stay in touch on this site with how things are going - it means the world to so many people on this site...

God and all the wonderful stuff the universe is made of be with you both forever xxx

[NLW]

Ali,

I'm relatively new here (only 13 months post bomb!), but i just wanted to let you know how much your posts have helped me.

At one stage i think they were the only thing that got me through my darkest times. And I keep going back to them to gain strength to carry on.

To have the opportunity of actually communicating with you makes my heart jump (now I sound like some crazy fan).

Please know how much you've helped - I don't even have the words.

Best, NLW

[4311]

I'm new to all this - what do these mean?

IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!

I'm guessing IDLY is "I Don't Love You"?
ADs?
OW?

[mishka422]

ADs = Anti-depressants
OW = Other Woman

[Michele Weiner-Davis]

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