No I don't thing his intent is to stalk. I think he is wondering who the heck I am and he is curious as to what my life is like now. He has lost that arrogant, bullying look and has been looking very shameful and humble.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Thanks Ma Ma. I wish the same. I much rather see that humble look that his "monster" demeanor. He could not de-fog soon enough for me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, He's curious about you and what you've been doing. He doesn't understand why he can't push your buttons on you don't contact him. He's trying to figure you out.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Ex is still texting me.. Last night he text me late inquiring why I did not text him back after his afternoon text. This is all so weird. I am not really sure how I should handle this.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting it is very obvious that your ex is poking his head out of the tunnel and as discovered that trusting isnt there beside him, I think he is curious as to what you are up to and with whom, just continue with your life, let him follow if he wants to do, these guys are really weird.
T Maybe they donr really remember all that has happened during the mlc years they obviously dont know who we are anymore or maybe how they got to the point they are at we remember the details and we clearly understand our detachmnet where they may not even realize they did anything wrong or if they do maybe they deny to themselves -all the damage maybe they look for a way out of their pain and they are not sure why they feel drawn to us again your forgiveness might set him free maybe the forgiveness is the energy we send them not a want you back energy just I hope the best for you and I am moving on now the past is over ect..easier said than done I know- not sure where you stand with your stand just my opinion peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
As i have watched people even have the mlc'r come back it seems as though all the lbs have moved on in their own life. i think what is really neat is how IF they are to come "home" that it is now something NEW and that you can start over and start fresh.
T- he is looking into your world... keep moving on in your world. Be who you are. Kind, forgiving - be YOU and who God has made you to be. He can't be rescued by you --- he has to find himself and walk through this. You can be beside him.... but you can't carry it. (i know you know all this already.. just reminding you.)
kinda cool watching what is happening... hugs to you --
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
