Oh no, WCW. I pray for your safe travels, and for your BIL's recovery. So sad about your SIL.
Blessings.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." � Peace Pilgrim
Thank you all so very much, please keep the prayers coming! BIL has been improving after stabilizing and having many surgeries, the doctors may remove the life support this week. Such a long recovery if he still survives this wreck.
As hard as it has been for us to stay home, we did not travel to H's brother. While their daughter was in the air for 14 hours H needed to be available to authorize procedures to be done. Also, the thought is that H will be better support when his brother is aware of what happened and that his W did not survive, H will most likely travel soon.
We also had the busiest week of our year and I was thankful that H could stay to help, although I would have made it happen if I had to without him.
And, ow has contacted me 2 times in the last weeks. Once via phone because she was trying to reach my H and he did not return the contact, and once in person at an event. It actually made me laugh because he ignores her. LOL
Oh, and we learned the driver that hit BIL head on was passing in a no passing, going up a hill, and the guy he was passing wouldn't let him by and turned it into a race. A wife/mother/grandmother is dead, and another man fighting for his life because 2 idiots were trying to prove who was stupider.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
WCW, Thank you for updating us. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Your BIL has a long road ahead of him if he can make it through everything.
It always seems like someone is out on the highway doing stupid stuff and the innocent folks are the ones that are either killed or injured. I hope that they are put in jail. I have absolutely no sympathy for such antics.
The ow needs to just stop her nonsense. Your h doesn't need this nonsense right now. He's got a lot of stress he's having to cope w/concerning his brother. I am very glad to see he's ignoring her. I hope he keeps it up.
How are you holding up?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you for the update. Have been wondering how things were going. I pray your BIL continues to improve. Can not imagine having to tell him that his W did not survive.
I have to wonder if this will hit home with your H. That everything can change in a split second.
Glad to hear that he is ignoring the ow. As Snodderly said, he doesn't need this right now (or at any time). Just goes to show how classless ow's can be.
Continued prayers for you all. Please don't forget to take care of yourself, too.
WCW, thanks for the update. We were on the road this weekend, and I saw a truck passing on a solid line. He just made it in front of the car ahead of us. So stupid. Fortunately, that car slowed down to let him in otherwise he would've hit a semi-trailer. My thoughts are with you and H and prayers for the health of BIL.
As for OW ... they have no shame, do they?
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." � Peace Pilgrim
Update - BIL continues positive progress, still on life support, heavily sedated, H is there now to support where he can for brother and niece.
H asked for a ride to the airport. Not a big deal in most lives, but this is a huge change for H. Anyone remember those years that he didn't even tell me he was planning a trip until the day before when his suitcase was out?
As I dropped H at the checkin, he gathered up his bags, then set them all down and gave me a hug, and said he would let me know when he cleared security. When he called I ended the call saying "I know it's been a long time since I've said this but I love you." Dang! those cell phone but I know I heard 'you too' and I'm 99% sure that was preceeded with 'I love' from him.
8 years this week since this blew wide open, 7 months prior to that when I can pinpoint his change.
snodderly, overall I am holding up good but I really have no choice. At my town job they layed off another person in my department, another manager retired early, and I'm just swimming trying to manage it all. At home there is so much going on I feel like I will never catch up, yet things have to get done before it all falls apart. H also gave me things to do for him while he is gone. eeeeekk!
seeking and being, thanks for your thoughts and prayers. Very much appreciated.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
"As I dropped H at the checkin, he gathered up his bags, then set them all down and gave me a hug, and said he would let me know when he cleared security. When he called I ended the call saying "I know it's been a long time since I've said this but I love you." Dang! those cell phone but I know I heard 'you too' and I'm 99% sure that was preceeded with 'I love' from him."
This is huge, WCW. Wow!
Sorry, you are so busy, but maybe that's a blessing in disguise - too busy to worry, or fret. Just try and focus on the task of the moment. You can do no more.
Peace.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." � Peace Pilgrim
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." � Peace Pilgrim
