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[jbnati]

BTW - real women have curves.

You will be just fine...and some day, when your ready, you are going to make a lucky man very very happy.

I like and agree with both of these. TG - you are so much more than your H makes you feel like you are. Don't ever forget that.

[~¤DG¤~]

P.S, losing a magical amount of weight, making you irresistable to men will not fix all your problems.

This x 100000!
For those who haven't followed my sitch from the beginning, I thought for many years that all of my unhappiness was related to being overweight. I had gastric bypass in 2009 and have lost 155 lbs. While I am happy with my decision to do it because I do feel healthier, it also wasn't the answer to my problems as I had hoped for it to be.

For me, the weight was a symptom of something deeper.

So keep loving yourself TG. If you want to make changes in your life, do it for you and nobody else.

[~¤DG¤~]

P.S. I realized I posted almost the exact same thing on page 2.
I blame the cough medicine.

[~¤DG¤~]

Great post gabby!

[a girl]

I totally agree with you, TG. And I think "narcissism" hits it right on the nose - the more I investigate the true narcissistic personality, the more lightbulbs about my STBX go on over my head.