Separation Helped So Far..

[JuneReN]

AH,
I have a sitch which is similar, but with kids, H moved out and immediately started up with another woman

But the reason I am writing is I really think we are in the same geographical area :P and wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas.

It seems as if you have resolved the R. What if, all of a sudden, let's say, H really wanted you back and started up DB'ing etc. would that change your mind at all, or too much water under the bridge?

Just curious

RB

[anyhope]

At the moment he does want me back but has serious issues really showing it or living up to the damage he had caused. I can't see us ever being together again because of the pain I went through, not just him leaving me but the way he left, the way he spoke to me and about me while at it. As if leaving wasn't painful enough as is.
There's been lots of issues and he would need to be a changed man.. And I mean changed and really sorry and maybe and that is a very huge maybe I would consider it but even then I'm sure I could never put it fully behind me. But that's fine because he's not trying.
Today he invited me and the dog over for Christmas dinner. I know he's lonely. First I said I won't go then he mentioned something about no one visiting him for Christmas I felt so bad for him. I mean this guy seriously has no family and I'm thinking why don't you spend it with ow. But given the holiday I decided to keep the harsh comments to myself and told him I might visit after I've been to my family. He's even making a turkey :-/
I just wish it would be easier to move on..
On another note RT hope you enjoy the holidays as well, all the best

[JuneReN]

I hear ya, Hun. Have a good day and pat your dog for me kay?

[verycrazy]

Hi, anyhope, I hope your Christmas was very merry! Did you go to H's for turkey dinner? Did the dog enjoy it? I have two dogs, and they enjoyed their Christmas, the little brats.

Happy New Year to you.
vc

[anyhope]

Dog pat done he had a good Christmas. I got him a new bed of course as soon as he got his new bed he decided to sit in the old one that I sat by the door to throw out later lol.
And no didn't go over to hs place was planning to but he called and said a friend called and asked him to come over so I said that was fine. He did send me an I love you text shortly after midnight on New Years. Of course that threw me off a bit. I didn't respond. Hope you all enjoyed the holidays as well.