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Yesterday I spent the evening with them. Played dominos with my d. Tried to teach my ex to play cards. She was very tired and invited my to have dinner with them. I prepared the salads and she put the meals on the table. I washed the dishes regardless her wish to do it herself. Later she showed me their fitness room and new training mashines. We chit chatted a bit and she saw me off.

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Today she called me in the evening and informed me that she was going to the cinema with our kid and her school mate.

Few minutes ago she called me again to tell me that they are going back to the house. We chit chatted for 14 minutes and she asked me to wake them up tomorrow morning.

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Today was a different day.

I woke them up in the morning and took the girls to the tennis lessons. During the day we didn't have contact with my ex.
In the evening she called me and informed that she is going out.
Later called again to tell me she is going home and I can bring the girl back.

When I got in the house she asked me to help her order some cosmetics from amazon for her mother. I didn't succeed b/c they do not ship to my country.

Her mother offered me dinner and beer but I didn't accept.
My ex asked me to wake them up again and saw me off to the door.

Few minutes ago she called me again and asked me why did I look so worn out. We exchanged jokes and chit chatted.

She didn't call me so many time since long time.

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I've also noticed that she uses my pet name more frequently.

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Sunday was very sunny here, 35 C degree.
I woke them up and went to their house.
While waiting for our daughter to have her breakfast my ex offered me a coffee. I took the coffee and the girl and we set off.

Tennis lesson, English lesson and swimming. Next we had lunch and decided to go back to the house of her mother by bicycle.
So we rode our bikes and set forth.

Our journey lasted 2 hours. I helped her running next to her and pushing her on her back.

When we got at the house there was her grandmother and my brother in wall with his family. It turned out that my mother in wall, who is very important person here, has a birthday tomorrow. She invited me "Come tomorrow if you wish".

So I definitely should bring her a bouquet of flowers.

My ex wasn't there. Later she called me to ask me where I had left the backpack of our daughter. I explained and the call ended.

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Originally Posted By: Nukem
English lesson

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my mother in wall


ah... Mother In LAW... ok... got it... smile

No pressure. Think to yourself, are you trying to impress the mother in law or your ex with a boquet of flowers?

Do it because you want to, don't do it to impress anyone. And be careful that it might seem like pressure or pursuit...

If you go, just be yourself.

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Depending on the MIL, I think he said it right-Mother in WALL!

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Originally Posted By: verycrazy
Depending on the MIL, I think he said it right-Mother in WALL!


lol smile

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My goal is not to impress. I just want to spend some quality time with my ex and her family. I owe respect to my mother in low.

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My goal is not to impress. I just want to spend some quality time with my ex and her family. I owe respect to my mother in low.

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