It seems that your X is moving closer and maybe testing the waters to see how things are with you. It could also be that she would just like to have a very good relationship with you for your D's sake.
Try and keep your expectation as low as possible. Keep letting her determine what she feels comfortable with.
Okay...enough about your X. What are you doing for yourself buddy? Do you have any hobbies? Does your D stay with you overnight? I'm asking these questions because it seems like every post is about your X, which I understand but also may not be the right frame of mind to have. You need to also focus on you and your hobbies.
OK? Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Hey Eric, thanks for your encouragement and interest.
I spent the evening at the house. We had a pleasant time. My brother in law is very interesting and entertaining person.
My ex aims having a good relationship, I think it's clear and understandable. It should be our mutual goal. If something more derive from that it will be welcome:)
If we talk about me I need to concentrate on my work. If I lose my job I won't be able to finance my girl's lessons, neither my needs.
My hobby are outdoor sport activities like pull ups, running, cycling. I need to repair my herniated disc so I visit Chinese acupuncturist, I also have to start my yoga exercises again. If I heal my back I will dedicate more time to running and skiing.
But my first priorities are taking English certificate and University master degree. Currently I train once a week. It is very hot here.
Yesterday I watched the men 100 m dash. And Bolt didn't surprise us again with his new Olympic record 9.63. My favourite US sprinter Ryan Bailey did his personal best 9.88 and ranked fifth, Gatlin is third.
I narrate about my ex b/c others would be interested how the relationship is evolving in order to not giving up their own sitch.
If something more derive from that it will be welcome:)
It may buddy..just remember...slow and steady...slow and steady.
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
We have a saying here ''Good things come slowly'' :-)
This morning she called me without special reason. I begin a topic about medical intervention which is needed for our girl and we continued with the health status of my ex.
Sorry to hear about your daughter man. I hope everything works out for her.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Honestly Nukem, I was not poking fun at your spelling. And I have respect for my mother in law, too. It's just if you read other people's stories here you will find some mothers in law ARE a bit like a brick wall, no moving them, therefore when I saw what you wrote, it tickled me. !! !! !!
We have the saying here: Good things come to those who wait, same as your saying, really.
Your story is very encouraging, and I hope things work out.
Hey, ladies, gents. There is an improvement today.
After the morning call we had 2-3 more calls about the our girl. I promised to buy a mathematical textbook for our d after work when going home.
When I entered the mall she called and asked what I was doing. Few minutes later she called again and told me that she was coming to the mall. I said OK after buying the book we may have a drink. So she came at Nike shop, we bought some sport goods and she went to the bookstore. I paid my stuff and followed her. She already had bought the textbook.
We headed to our favourite restaurant. I was gallant, gave her a position with full view of the place and helped her with the chair I listened to her problems, told her compliments about her new jewellery. During the conversation she was touching me and vice versa. We was holding our hands for few seconds. She show her wish in coming with us at the mountain resort for ski vacation, she also told me to call her when I go jogging at the stadium. She asked me where I am taking my energy from. She mentioned that she hadn't wanted the divorce and I had forced her for doing that. There were more strange questions by her: "Do you have a girlfriend now" and "Have you had sex with that ex colleagues of yours". She noticed that I make her feel calm. At the end she asked me to see her off to her SUV. At the car we continued our talking and I promised to go to their house next day to help our d with the maths exercises. When saying bye to each other she asked me to kiss her on her forehead and I did it and also kissed her on the tip of her nose
Strangely or not that evening was better than I could ever imagine. She was completely different.
I hope it is not a calm before the storm.
She has just called me again at 11.30 pm to tell me that our d has skin rash. I talked to both of them and ended the call.
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