Might whomever she had the most recent affair with be worried about a possible "alienation of affection" or "criminal conversation" action by you against them?
What are the laws regarding "condonation" of adultery in your state?
She just called me about some financial matters. The conversation was rather light-hearted. I asked her what she meant and she apologized about popping that question on my phone first thing. Especially since I don't hear from her much except about business.
Anyway, she told me it was absolutely harmless. Her sister asked how I was doing and when the last time we (wife and I) saw each other was. She asked if we were ever intimate since the split and my wife said no but couldn't be for sure. Her sister said it sounded strange that we never got intimate again. My wife said it's happened in her past relationships BUT not when she was with someone else.
I'm not worried either way. We haven't done anything since then - well, we kissed a few times. But that's been it.
Other than that, she commented on the chairs I recovered. Said she was sorry about being so stuffy on Sunday and not complimenting them. The girls were getting to her (and she had them all of 2 hours. Florida trip should be fun for her. 4 days I think). I told her I was thinking about making a runner for the table with the remaining material. She thought it would be nice. Haven't told her about the window dressing in the bathroom that's getting done by my mother.
I apologized about not volunteering to go to these financial meeting we have had in the past. I'm going to one tomorrow about our home. She said it wasn't anything to worry about that she was usually close to home and could go. I work out of town and it's tougher to get there and back without wasting so much time and gas. She did ask if I wanted her to go. I told her she was welcome to join me, but not required.
Then I mentioned that my boss' mother will probably pass away this week. His father just passed last month. His mother fell in her home and no one knew for a few days. Since then she lost her health. The thing is, his father and mother were divorced many many years ago. His father went from wife to wife and his mom was always single. Always. When his dad lost his health he wanted to remarry her. She wouldn't but still helped to take care of him.
My wife said something like, "Isn't it strange that they were never back together but still passed away this close to each other?"
"Uh? Yeah."
Me:42 W:43 M:03/08/98 SD17, D13 Found out about affair:12/16/10 Found out again: 06/22/12 Split: 06/22/12
