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Now I need the edit function, I left out a bracket somehow. smile smile smile

I am not following my own advice of using the preview button here.


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Oh maybe you did mention your license - now I have confused myself. smile smile smile


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Originally Posted By: Cadet
Oh maybe you did mention your license - now I have confused myself. smile smile smile


smile I have no idea - to tell you the truth, I think you mentioned it and I was like "mmm, I don't remember saying anything about that, at least not on THIS board" smile

Who knows, we all criss cross online...

Anyway, I just got my temp tags from the DMV, moving along on all my goals feels cool...

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Originally Posted By: 4311
I don't remember saying anything about that, at least not on THIS board" smile

Ahh OK - That was exactly my point. - LOL smile smile smile


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"Let the results speak for themselves"....I here this a lot. I also here "we don't have kids or any reason to see each other so how can the results speak for themselves?". Now, I've made a case for not needing to worry about this and used my relationship as an example - we lived in different countries and that didn't stop her from finding ne, didn't stop me from moving. But, there's a big difference between before the D and after. I don't think I've ever gotten a satisfying response to this question: if the two of you are D, don't have kids, and basically never see each other other than maybe (maybe) bumping into each other at the gym, how does your stuff talk for itself? I'm thinking at some point you are going to have to state your case, no?

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Do you mean that you will have to be the pursurer?


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Originally Posted By: Cadet
Do you mean that you will have to be the pursurer?


I DK. That's obviously an option (odds are at least 50%, right?).

I think it's very likely I would have to be the "pursuer". I don't have a problem with that - she was the pursuer last time...

I guess I'm sort of answering my own question. Now that I think about it I don't think it really matters if we cross each others paths much or not. I'll either reach out on my own or I won't.

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Pursuit and Distance can be pretty complex.

There is a good thread here on it and also elsewhere you can find even more information.

Good stuff to know.

I think timing for something like that is key.

You can test the waters and then decide I guess.

If she was the pursurer in the past she may return to that but it will be very far in the future


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Does anyone know what happened to LNMW?

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