Thanks guys. It's all guesswork I suppose. She's never been officially diagnosed by anyone.
MLC is not a DSM diagnosed disease. So yes it is a guess, but as you read all the forums and the different stories you can see their is a defineable script that they go through. It could take 5-7 years or more. That is why the advice is to work on you. Karen posted this from MWD and I think it can give you some hope.
Originally Posted By: KarenR
Hi, thanks for this post. Michele says that about 15% of couples that get divorced remarry each other.
How many of the 85% dont want anything to do with their spouses anymore? So to me it sounds like pretty good odds.
In the end you will get to decide. And if you have not gotten the chance to decide yet - well that is because you are not at the end yet.
Pmac, I ran through your thread - what has stuck out for me is that you have said a whole lot about what your ex has done, why you think she did it, how you think she feels, etc. I have not heard anything about what role you felt you played in all this. Whatever she did she didn't do it alone.
