"homework" from job - Hi Job, thank you

[Pudmuddle]

Thank you SO MUCH etc, and Ang for your support right now. That means a lot to me.

The strange thing is, I thought it would hurt so much more, but I do feel incredibly at peace with what I just did.

[Feenix]

I know. I wish I could give you a HUGE hug and tell you that you ARE going to be okay. Cause you are.

[Feenix]

On a totally different note, I was born in the Rocky Mountain state. Weird, huh? I lived there til I was 7 and still have family there.

Anyway, I am sending you HUGS! You are very strong and amazing....and you said what you needed to say.

We can all give DBing advice on here...but all of our sitches are different...and I truly believe that if you feel peace, then that is what needed to happen.

[etc]

(((((((Pudmuddle)))))))

I agree completely w/AngelaR. DBing is certainly not a science. There are rules of thumb, but if this is what it took for you to get some peace tonight, I can't argue that. Your H has some big decisions to work through now. Let him work that out on his own. Focus on yourself and your S now.

ETC

[Feenix]

Yep, I agree with ETC.

Get some sleep. Let him be, and let him think about it. He has a lot to lose. Maybe he'll realize that.

Take care of yourself!!!

[Pudmuddle]

That is cool Angela. I love this state. Thanks for the virtual hug.

Etc, thank you for the hugs. And I must be okay with it because I am not bawling my eyes out, my heart is not pounding out of my chest and I feel a HUGE sense of relief!

I am at peace. I agree, etc, now he has some big things to think about and needs to work it out now, with himself. By his lonesome. His little wee-ness. His alien leader.

Thanks again you two for the support tonight. ((((HUGS)))) back at ya.

[Feenix]

Glad I was online when you posted.
Hope you get some much needed rest!

[etc]

Goodnight Ang & Pud!

[BrightFuture]

Pud, I admire you for the courage. You did what you needed to do. (((((hugs)))))

[willbwell]

Pud, I hope you got some sleep. plan to have a good productive day today so that your mind doesn't do the replay thing of last night. I did feel when my h was home the walking on eggshells around him. I felt his underlying disdain. I think part of his struggle and confusion. My h came back twice. I should not have been so eager to take him back. I should have insisted on some therapy if he genuinely wanted to be back.
Day at a time Pud. Be the terrific you today!!Be thankful for the paece you felt. I know that is what I am striving for-peace.