Joining the Party

[Barrybran]

Hi all,

I'm new to this part of the forum. My wife and I haven't officially separated but that seems to be coming in the next few days. For all intents and purposes however, we've been separated since I returned from work in November.

My Newcomers thread is here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2410333&page=1

I'd like to know if anyone has any advice on the separation talk. I have no job at the moment so I'm going to be dependent on my wife until I can find work but she wants to find a second place, leave my kids at our primary place and have my wife and I swap places to spend our time with the kids. That means my wife and I will share two residences just not at the same time.

If you have any opinions on what I should consider, ask, think about, whatever, I'd like to know.

Thanks for reading this and I hope to get to all of your situations soon.

[Roberta]

I know how stressful this separation must be on you and your family. It seems as if you are "under the gun" for quick advice. I strongly urge you to speak to a Divorce Busting coach as soon as possible. Even though you think your situation is final, it is not. There is still much that can be done. We can help you. Please call me to discuss our program. Roberta at 303-444-7004.