work is good; H is crazy

[Whiterose]

Thank you job. He's asking stupid questions, through his costly L, and asking me to prove stuff he already knows. I just don't understand.

I still make quite a bit less than him so I don't think he'd be able to try that game. He doesn't like he has to "support me" (a statement he made when he called to yell at me just before I left on the trip). He doesn't seem to understand it's for his sons.

His L will be paid once he receives his settlement from the house. Unlike me, who is paying as I go, he will lose all his money from the buy out.

I'm trying to be strong, but I'm tired of this. It's been a year of lawyers and craziness and he just doesn't seem to see the end is nothing but crazy

[job]

WR,
I think your h is a lot like Bea's h. He can't let you go and he doesn't care what he has to do to keep you wrapped up in his drama.

I would have a nice chat w/my lawyer and I would advise him/her, that enough is enough and let's get this stuff in writing so that he doesn't continue to come back w/the same BS. All he thinks he's doing is paying you for support, not for his sons. Your sons don't fit into his sick equation at all.

I don't think I could be upset by this latest stuff...more like I would be furious w/him. You've tried being pleasant and civil w/him and yet, he still is snapping at your feet. More distance is required on this front and this may explain his comments about seeing his son whenever his son wants to and also he would get first dibs on his son's time.

I do understand your position and that's why you need to call h is bluff on this and go to court. It might make he realize that he can't control you or your life any longer. One quick question, why wasn't this letter sent to your lawyer or did your lawyer receive a copy of the letter too?

In the meantime, please try to take care of yourself. Monday will be here before you know it and then you'll have some answers then.