The funny thing is, I bet that any of these WASs would be able to point out the hypocrisy in their statements if someone else had said them.
One of my favorites was when my H told me that he "had no choice" but to move out, because he had signed a lease and had to honor that commitment.
I filed for S after my H told me in no uncertain terms that he wants a D (he even used the term "irretrievably broken" to describe our M), sent me a proposal for division of assets, etc., and told me to hurry up and get back to him on it since he had to make some decisions about his life and career. (Ha!) After I filed, he told me that, by filing (for what he told me he wanted!), I (1) trashed our R; (2) betrayed him; and (3) damaged the trust between us. Also, I am a bad role model for our children and filing was childish.
Keep 'em coming, guys. I think we could write a bestseller.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
My H put in the papers as one of the reasons as the marriage was done in his statement was we don't have any of the same friends.....
I was shocked because I encouraged H to GET friends our entire marriage. There must have been a lot I didn't know or he is referring to the new friends he's made since he left our home because he was always right in the middle of all my friends.
Is that the best you can come up with H? You're ridiculous. Why not just say, I want to trade her in.
M:40 H:42 M: 12yrs BD: 2/1/13 H moved out: 2/22/13 D: 11 Divorce started 11/13
In regards to our finances, "I have no desire to talk about all this stuff but we need to at sometime."
"I just want us both to be happy."
In regards to what she told her boss and wife, "I forced her to marry me." How is this possible? If I had magical forcible powers don't you think I would force her to stay in the marriage and R.
"I was guiltied into coming back to you"
"I have no desire to go to counseling. If you need help you can go, but I'm good. I don't need someone to tell me what in suppossed to do in this relationship"
___________________________________________________________ M: 32 W: 26 M 7 months, T 4 years M: 2nd M W: 1st M No kids
living separately 1/26/14 W files D 2/24/14 D final 4/28/14
In response to the question of WHY a newly m H would have any affairs (let alone several) and so soon into the m, and throughout the marriage, (especially since his w was a high sex drive partner who never rejected her h)....to which
The cheating h said "W, a MAN HAS HIS NEEDS..."
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
a WAW went to the family receiving line to say this to her h:
"H, I've had such a hard week, you would not believe it. First the dog had fleas, so I had to deal with that, ...(Pause) and now this...
it hits me hard b/c of how close your mom and I were...yeah..."
(Yes I swear this happened b/c I literally witnessed part of it, and my h saw the rest)
Nope, you can't make this up
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
W: "You ruined my friendship with your sister and sister-in-law!" M: "You did that yourself and lied to them and had an affair" W: "That shouldn't matter, I did what I wanted to do!". M: "You lied to all of us. They feel betrayed too". W: "I was faithful for 15 f#%#ing years. That should be enough". M: " Then you used me emotionally to buy you a BMW, telling me our marriage was great and last forever. Two weeks later you were done.". W: "I DESERVED that car!"
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
WAH to LBS w: "OF course the kids are hurt, thanks to you. You're turning them against me..."
W: "you don't think they notice that you now live somewhere else?"
WAH: "I didn't 'leave', I just live up the road..."
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
