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Thank you life's twists,
I just feel so torn with it all...


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BonitaL #2460925 06/17/14 01:54 AM
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I figure you are not responsible for this. It's up to H.

Same boat here. WAW has several times chosen OM over her kids. It's up to her to mend and take responsibility. I will not bad mouth W but I also won't defend.


Me: 44, WAW: 49
S: 16, S: 12
M: almost 20 yrs 08/94
1st A: 08/13/04
2nd A confirmed: 4/26/14
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I do not bad mouth H, when he missed my sons graduation, so he could move into his new apartment. I did blurt out, "and why couldn't he reschedule?" I mean he is paying movers. You can't reschedule a graduation.

It's so frustrating of course my grad said it was fine. So I keep my mouth shut. Smile and nod, then cry myself to sleep!

I miss him, the old him. Not this person, that's what I have to keep in check.


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So I overheard my D talking to my youngest son, " you just don't leave someone because they are depressed, or even when their depressed."
My son, "I don't blame him I don't like being around depressed people, that's why I hate myself."
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