Is WAW an enemy or a friend?

[kiro]

I was just wondering right now. Should I think of my WAW as an enemy or as a friend?

I mean I'm trying to detach and not think of her at all, but it still feels like mission impossible for me.

[SteveLW]

Follow sandi's rules. Think of her as the cashier at a store. Neither a friend or enemy. Treat her pleasantly like you would a cashier ringing up your groceries.

[hongaku]

Or a casual neighbor...

[kiro]

What I mean is: should I wish her the best like I would for a friend? In other words, should I remove myself from the picture and wish her success in her journey? I would help a friend and would probably help a casual neighbor and I would be friendly and kind to a cashier.

I guess I've answered my own question. The key is to have no emotion toward her, to be calm and treat her like I would treat anyone else. I think I'm starting to get it.

[Maika]

yo, didn't you already have a thread going? The rule here is to post in your thread until it has 100 replies and then start a new thread. This is so people can go back and see your history and what's happened. You have a new question? Post it in your thread instead of starting new ones.

I hope Cadet sees this and merges the threads.

[kiro]

Thanks Maika. I didn't know the rule, but I was wondering if I was doing something wrong. Sorry about that...

I'll stop posting anything here. I'll go back to the other post and as you said, maybe Cadet will merge this one