Most things here are not urgent. LB55 has been deployed and coming home to see his children and blindsided by legal paperwork that needs a timely response. All right on top of the holidays.
I am sure most of us would react emotionally. He needs lots of support how to respond logically right now.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
