Thread title is for effect for myself to place focus emphasis on me and where I am going. Not to become self-centered but to have goals. The bike can represent the life I want - not all about the bike but rather, focused on quality, joy, preparation and yes - backbone.
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Thanks Spiral. Keeping and regaining focus determination and consistent effort in sustained direction is hard and requires concentration and learning. Also evaluating progress helps me be open to course correct.
W texted, “ do you think I should open up a retirement investment for myself? We have been doing our taxes together up until now. At some point we might divide our assets.” For context, I have a work pension and a retirement plan in my name (shared asset) with my higher income and W has a savings plan.
Ideas how to respond? Haven’t yet. I have been talking to L and also getting some financial advice for myself and our family but have not shared that with W. This is not an area of strength for me but I am getting informed and taking care of business to look after myself, our family and to leave a legacy.
W texted, “ do you think I should open up a retirement investment for myself? We have been doing our taxes together up until now. At some point we might divide our assets.” For context, I have a work pension and a retirement plan in my name (shared asset) with my higher income and W has a savings plan.
Ideas how to respond? Haven’t yet. I have been talking to L and also getting some financial advice for myself and our family but have not shared that with W. This is not an area of strength for me but I am getting informed and taking care of business to look after myself, our family and to leave a legacy.
She has fired you as her husband therefore she relinquishes her right to seek your counsel. I suggest not responding.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
W texted, “ do you think I should open up a retirement investment for myself? We have been doing our taxes together up until now. At some point we might divide our assets.” For context, I have a work pension and a retirement plan in my name (shared asset) with my higher income and W has a savings plan.
Ideas how to respond? Haven’t yet. I have been talking to L and also getting some financial advice for myself and our family but have not shared that with W. This is not an area of strength for me but I am getting informed and taking care of business to look after myself, our family and to leave a legacy.
She has fired you as her husband therefore she relinquishes her right to seek your counsel. I suggest not responding.
Rockon has been told not to interact with her about 1000 times.
