MC--these are positives. For all the fog, she's still hesitant to lose your presence in her life. Keep up the good work!
Yes. She has her 'cake' and can 'eat it' too.
Doesn't get much better than that.
If it were my situation, I would
1) Be sure you are right.
2) If you are SURE you are right. Ask her about it.
3) If she confirms, tell her that you will no longer tolerate her ADULTERY while she claims to be open to your relationship. She can't 'have her cake and eat it' too.
Be a man. Cut her off from any time with you no MATTER HOW MUCH SHE COMPLAINS. She manipulates you with her BS. She's good at it too. Stop playing the game.
She is an adultress. plain and simple. Treat her like one.
The problem is, I don't know if she was with him or not. She got home about 9:30 last night. Chances are, she was with him, but I have no proof. She has too many other places that she could have been as well. I just have no way to know. If I ask her, she can lie and I would have no way to know.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
No. She told her mom that she is only seeing him at work, which is a lie as we all know. She hasn't said that she wants to work on the M, in so many words. Originally, she was flat out against any counselling. Now she doesn't say no, just not at this time. Between her 4 phone calls today and asking me out, I don't know what to think about her, but she is pursuing me, thats for sure.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
Some of the advice that I have recieved from people is that a if your W starts talking to a L that the L will advice them to push you into doing something that you will later regret. I guess the logic here is to turn the sitch legally in favor of your S. If that doesn't work a L will advice them to play nice until they have their ducks in a row and then spring everything on you. I guess this shows that they tried to make things work and your M can nolonger be saved. Either way it is pretty messed up if you ask me.
Hopefully none of this is going on and your W truely is pursueing you.
Well she came to pick up S15. I was working in the garage.....very manly you know. (Olive a garage is where us city folk keep our cars....you call them sheds)
Anyway, I mentioned to her that I was going to the corner bar tonight about 8:30 for happy hour and some wings. I never asked her to go, just said it and then said, so if you want to stop after choir. She said oh, ok, no idea if it is a yes or no, but we will see.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
I am a stud!!!!! W just dropped kids off. She brought up me going out for wings/beer tonight. She reminded me that the event I am taking the kids to where S15 has to play in the Jazz Band is all you can eat and I will be full. I told her that I guess I will only drink beer then. She sounded less than enthusiastic about going. I blew it off and went back to work. As she was leaving, she asked what time I would be there......
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
