I have been reading a lot of the success posts and article by Michele. The most recent While Your Spouse Decides. I drives me crazy that she doesn't give you the outcome of the sitch. Does it mean it wasn't good? Curious.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Yes, that is the one. It really isn't that clear. It doesn't say we are together. I hope they are!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
It's Fathers Day. I struggled to call or not. I wanted to talk to the kids to say good morning. H didn't answer which I was glad. I LM that I wanted to talk to the kids. I was supprised when H called back instead of the kids. I said HFD and we chatted a bit, then he handed the phone over. I feel this is progress. H really is much more receptive to talk &/or initiate a call when the seas are calm. I have not meantioned the OW which has been a problem for me. I'm sure he noticed that. Usually the conversations are generic or about him. H never asks about me. I think because H doesn't want me to ask him?? Whatever it is I have to keep on the path. It is still hard for me to not think, feel, whatever when H is so nice. H and kids were going out to breakfast for FD. I wished so bad that H would have invited me so I could say how nice that was but I'm sorry I have plans..didn't happen but that's okay. I'm just happy with what's going on now. Babysteps! S
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Yesterday H droped off the kids and said "whats going on"? Tha was big it's usually "hey". H also brushed a piece of hair off my face. I know that doesn't seem like anything, but I could have had mud all over my face and H wouldn't have noticed or cared. Talked a little then H left. It has really been nice I m trying to keep it this way and see what happens. Baby Steps is my motto from now on! S
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Duct Tape!! Just being nice. I get so caught up in being angry that I just get in a rut of being a b**ch. I know he responds very well to kindness. I just would rather fight I guess. I was hurt and wnated him too. You know the drill..H HATES conflict. I guess I was doing that to hurt like he hurt me?? I'm past that now and just want to be nice even though there is the OW. I WILL be kind and H friend if it kills me. H said that one of the reasons he left he wanted a W that was his best friend. Maybe I can be the EW that is his BF and then??
If nothing else get along for the kids.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Another thing I noticed today. H works with my neighbor and for a while now has been hiding his truck behind the shop. Because it got ugly with us. He used to park it up front before all that. I noticed today he parked it up front?? Softening?? Feeling more comfortable?? I don't know. I can't read too much into it. I'm just happy to get along right now. I need to make sure I take it slow and not to push, patience is not my friend :). S
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
