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Makes me a little nervous when Speed talks about "swinging things."



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If any of you guys get a chance sometime, will you look at Gina's thread? I don't feel like she gets a lot of different people commenting and different viewpoints are always a good thing.


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Especially when referring to Ian....


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Well...sitting at work drinking a beer...LOVE FRIDAYS!

So gotta head over and grab the key to my new place on my way home. YAY! Going to try and start moving some stuff in this weekend. W called - her, kids and I are going to go to Ikea tomorrow to pick them up a bunk bed for her place. They may stay there with her tomorrow night. Good to get them used to it I guess. Oh yeah, she did a little better on her exam then she thought so she has made it through another semester. Only one left! And a guy she knows who finished up last years says that the last semester is pretty easy and that the one she just finished was the hardest. Good!

My "friend's" friend had invited me up to have a drink with her and a friend that was coming in from out of town. Well her friend is now not coming...so she emailed me and in it she says:

"I'll likely curl up in comfy clothes, have some dinner and watch a movie. You are more than welcome to join! "

hmmmm....interesting offer....from the recently divorced hottie!

I know the peanut gallery who saw the pictures will kick my a$$ for saying it...but just don't think I'm ready for anything to happen and I feel like I'm putting myself into a tempting and possibly dangerous situation.


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Originally Posted By: swashy
I know the peanut gallery who saw the pictures will kick my a$$ for saying it...but just don't think I'm ready for anything to happen and I feel like I'm putting myself into a tempting and possibly dangerous situation.
I think you should go with those instincts, then, Scott. No need to rush things.

Although I will complain that you have not shared those hottie pictures with ME!


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I'll see if i can send them via your myspace mail Rob.

Or I could go and simply stay in control...which I can do.


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So Scottie,

Are you going to go or wait for another time when you can hang out in a setting where you won't feel like it is "tempting" and "possibly dangerous?"

Whatcha gonna do?


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Originally Posted By: swashy
Or I could go and simply stay in control...which I can do.
Well, ask yourself: What message are you trying to send here?


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Originally Posted By: swashy
Well...sitting at work drinking a beer...LOVE FRIDAYS!


Welcome to high tech ;\)

Quote:

"I'll likely curl up in comfy clothes, have some dinner and watch a movie. You are more than welcome to join! "

hmmmm....interesting offer....from the recently divorced hottie!

I know the peanut gallery who saw the pictures will kick my a$$ for saying it...but just don't think I'm ready for anything to happen and I feel like I'm putting myself into a tempting and possibly dangerous situation.


Perhaps you can counter offer with just a long phone call?

Whatever happened to the the friend who introduced you two? They fighting with each other over you yet

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Well I emailed her back and just kind of said...didn't want to crash on any "alone" time. We'll see what she says.

Dana - I actually have a lot of self control in situations like that and I if I don't want to do anything I won't...which I don't. Just not there yet. So I guess it's not really dangerous. Also don't want to set myself up for what could be an uncomfortable situation either though. Whatever, not going to sweat it.


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