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Oh weekend was different. H in and out most of the time, worked sat night, I went to church sunday am, I come home h says I have to go meet someone for a drink work related. Sure,

I make dinner, h falls asleep on couch like always, nothing new. Then wakes up and goes on computer so not to be in living room with me. Not one word about him going to fla tues. Yes, tomorrow. Is he going to call me when his flight lands?

We shall see, feeling confused now, due to now what do i do about xmas. I had it all planned out with him not being here. Now must divide my time between home and parents. I will like all other things figure this one out.

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P.S also need to link my previous subject. I tried this am and it did not work, can anyone talk me thru it, not very computer savy. Thanks

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Ok really cannot figure out how to link my posts. Have been trying and cannot do it. ANyone have idiot instructions on how to do?

Also still waiting on pins and needles about if h is going to florida.

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2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce



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1. Go to the old thread and copy the URL address.
2. Go to new thread and choose 'reply'. Quick reply doesn't give you icons.
3. Click the icon with the little globe with the paper clip.
4. Paste in the URL address from the old thread. (Script prompt, paste, check ok.)
5. Create name for link.


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ps...took me forever to figure it out


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One thing to add to those instructions.

When you go to your old thread, select ALL for the pages to view. This way the person later clicking the lin will have the entire thread rather than simply a specific page. I find it is much easier that way. Especially since sometimes you select to view a page int he middle and posters then end up...well in the middle of the thread rather than at the beginning.
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RCR, can you check out my thread?

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Ok, It must be that i am trying to do this at work, I cannot get it to work. My H could do it with his eyes closed, but i will not even ask him. I will try later from home computer maybe it will work.

Would not make bill gates proud right now, told you i am a computer idiot.


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UGH!
I give up \:\(


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Ok, its now 8:15pm H made dinner, nothing spectacular keep in mind, soup and pizza. I went to the gym. Still not one word about going tomorrow, when is he going to tell me call me from the airport? ok, this is weird, maybe he is staying?

TRUST ME, i know and i will not get my hopes up high for anything, he is not staying because of me, its because of the job. H must have to work. Must not be bothering H too much, he is sleeping on couch right now.

Now i face what to do about xmas eve and xmas day. Maybe my talk got thru to him? Maybe he is thinking. Like i said and i know this will sound horrible, but i would prefer him to go to florida, at least i know he won't be with ow. I rather him be states away from me than spending time with her. I think he has plans to be with her and its going to make it very difficult for me.

I want to snoop so bad into his email account right now, but no i am holding restraint, i won't do it. If he takes this low road and does tell me later when he wakes up or tomorrow that he is leaving, I will have to face it head on, at least i have the heads up that he potentially may be going.

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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1284144&page=5#Post1284144

Ok lets see if it worked now?!?! [url=http://time for honesty & truth for a new beginning-1]Enter the complete URL for the link you wish to add.[/url]


Me 42-Him 40
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2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce



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