W called several times last night and I did not answer. Twice to my cell phone and several times to the land line (I inadvertently had it off the hook apparently). I called her back today.
No indication yet she wants to set up a meeting. She talked about whether I'll be able to get my own health insurance as I'm currently on her plan. I told her about a wisecrack from S7 . She called again an hour later to talk about the upcoming presidential primaries: she's for Hilary, so again I listened, I validated. No mention of lawyers, D, R or M. I then said I need to get back to work.
I feel about W the way I felt about the rabbit when he ran away(see above). Anyone care to comment on where all this is going?
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread
No indication yet she wants to set up a meeting. She talked about whether I'll be able to get my own health insurance as I'm currently on her plan. I told her about a wisecrack from S7 . She called again an hour later to talk about the upcoming presidential primaries: she's for Hilary, so again I listened, I validated. No mention of lawyers, D, R or M. I then said I need to get back to work.
I'm having difficulty understanding WAS who do the whole 'I don't want to work on the M, but I'm not working to kill it either'. I'm in a similar position - W is very pleasant, friendly and we have a lot of fun together, but she won't work on the M, yet she isn't moving forward with a D or even legal separation.
It's very confusing, but I figure it's probably better than her going full steam ahead with a D. At least your W sounds like she's not in a rush to make a decision.
